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I'm positive my friend took something of mine and I don't know how to confront her about it!

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Question - (20 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 February 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Ok, so I have a really strange situation with a gf of mine. I had invited her on Valentines day to my house because she got in a huge fight with her bf so she decided to sleep over at my house. As she spent the night over, I woke up the next morning and I saw one of my cupboards open where I had some valubles in there, not thinking anything at the time so I didn't bother to look. Something came up yesterday and I looked in that same cupboard and it was gone!

I'm totally shocked and I swore I thought I knew this girl really well, I mean she was a really good friend of mine. Although I've only known her since 2007 summertime, we've became really close and I thought I could trust her. I don't want to put the blame on anyone or point fingers so I checked the whole entire house, hoping that I would find it and hoping that our friendship is not in jeopardy!

No one else has been to my house and the last person was her and I feel really upset and betrayed if she would have taken it, I mean no one else was there except myself and I know I'm not hallucinating because I am certain it was there and I saw a few days before she came. What do I do in this situation? I know that she ain't gonna tell me the truth, so what do I do? I can't pretend to be her friend and I don't want to confront her, it's embarassing! Pls help me!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009):

Hello. Okay this has happened to me. How i handled it was. Hi can i speak to you, i need some help,you know when we were together on valentines, well, did you see anything because my rolex watch disaapeared from the cupboard,it was only us in the house, so did you see anything?.Please help? \no help but it materialised the very next day.

Good Luck.

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