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writes:i went on a date with a guy.The same night when we got home i texted him quick to mention something about what we'd been speaking about, because i remembered the name of something.And he sent a text back saying he had a great time, and hes glad he went. and he'd enjoy going out again. and mentioned going round his or for a drink later in the week.Also on the date we got on really well, all the signs there that he liked me.We spoke to next day online , i mentioned him coming round mine instead.and he was like i dont know what im doing yet, but il text you as soon as possible :)But its been over a week, and he hasnt text me, I feel like he doesnt care anymore, he doesnt speak to me online anymoreHe will if i speak to him first, and he still speaks to me and seems to enjoy speaking to me. It makes me think if hes trying to fade apart from me ,or something, why still speak to me and put x's ?what should i do, my friend told me to leave it.. and if he likes me he will DEFFO speak sooner or later?is that true.or should i ask him where i stand?I HATE NOT KNOWINGG :(
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reader, shiraz *  +, writes (20 February 2009):
hiyah, i think its right that you know where you stand with somebody, he owes you that. sometimes it doesnt mean as much to a guy and girls can fall deep sooner than they can. i dont judge quick but he seems the type thats had his fun and has cooled off for a bit i may be wrong but its normal in a guy they dont behave the same as girls and on the other hand it could be that he enjoyed himself but doesnt know what the next step is. chat normal to him but drop hints such as so yeah it was fun but then you stopped talkin to me for a bit! make it a joke, guys dont like serious too soon. dont be too forward, when he comes online wait for him to talk and if he doesnt dont let it hurt you too much! hes probably expecting you to talk and itll surprise him when you dont forcing him into the first move. dont let it take over your life, its crap not knowing i know but until he decides and then lets you know im afraid you play the waiting game and god it can be long and could end up a waste of time but if you think hes worth it (and im judging by what youve said you do!) then hopefully hes worth the wait. at the same time dont put your life on hold as hes probably not! go out have your fun, might take your mind of him a bit! best of luck xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009): hun just take your friends advice! if he does like you then he will get in touch with you sooner or later. Not knowing is horrible but the best thing to do is to leave him to make the next move. At the end of the day he is just one of millions of boys out there, and it sounds like you've got a great friend who is looking out for you. Just put him to the back of your mind an go out an have fun with your mates!
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