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writes:Well,the thing is iv been with my boyfried for 3 months or so... and i still actually really love him. But one thing that really puts me off his is... i dont like to kiss him, i mean i do like kissing just i dont like kissing him because... well, his lips are always soo sticky and slavery, and when he pulls his lips from mine.. mine are always lift with his sticky slavery stuff and it makes me feel a bit sick, and im not being mean :(... so i kind f try to aviod kissing him to often but you know i cant like never kiss him, and when we do i make it dead short but he goes in for another and it just makes me sorta like kinda cringe. and i dont no what to do, i was thinking of ending it but i think its a bit of a stupid idea to end it just because i dont like his kiss's, i mean i dont want to break his heart over that, but i just don't know what to no...What should i do, please, advice please? Would it be a stupid idea to end it because of that?ahh i just dont know??? Help please?
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reader, Kitty Thunder  +, writes (21 February 2009):
 What you need to do is wait for the subject to be brought up, then (being cautious so as not to hurt his feelings) explain to him your dilemma. Honesty is always the best answer so long as you start if off with something like "I hope this doesn't hurt your feelings". That said, kindly ask him to try not to let his spit get out of his mouth when he kisses you. I'm sure he doesn't realize it, and he can tell there is something wrong. He must be confused and wondering why you avoid his kisses, so by all means the best thing to do would be to let him know why. Keeping him in the dark is only hurting him and the awkwardness will not make your relationship any better.Another thing to remember is that guys are especially sensitive about being able to do things right. So it's best to start it off by praising him about something he did that you liked, and following it up with letting him know you believe in his ability to improve. You might address it to him in person so that you could smile about it, even a fake smile, to help him save face. This is always safe.I hope this helps.
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