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writes:me and this guy met on orkut (Social networking and discussion site )and we have been knowin each other by communicating by phone since last year..havent seen each other bfore..he says he likes me and i also like him..he says he love me 60% but as for the rest he will be sure only when he will come and see me..when he'll come after 6 months then we'll see each oder..if everything goes well,we both like each other then he wants to have sex with me..he will marry after 2- 3 yrs only...i dont know what should i do when he'll come here..after comin here and sayin he loves me and havin sex with me if he'll ditch me then??..or is he genuinely true..I'm confused..help me..should i belive him or not..I'm a very simple gal..and too emotionally attached to him..how to judge him..he says he'll hve sex with a gal whom he loves and will marry..and if he luvs me only then he will have sex wid me..what should i do?????/
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (20 February 2009):
 It sounds to me if he has said he wants to have sex first then that is all he is after I'm afraid. The first time you meet should be special and you should just spend some time getting to know each other face to face before you jump into bed!
Dont have sex with him straight away, he will only be using you and then you will probably never hear from him again. If he respects that you dont want to sleep with him right away; then it shows he loves you and respects you. If he gets annoyed when you dont sleep with him then it shows he doesnt love you and only ever wanted sex.
Good luck!
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reader, Ed1337 +, writes (20 February 2009):
 Just take things slowly and don't agree to have sex with him until you have seen him a number of times face to face and your sure that you want to. I've learnt that things can suddenly change once you see someone in the flesh, its easy to fall for someone by texting and phone calls, but you might not click in person. When you do meet him, make sure you let someone know where you are and what time you are meeting him. I would also meet him in a public place for the first time as well, you don't want him coming round your house if you've never seen him before.If he does love you 60% and wants to marry you, he will understand that you don't want to have sex straight away. If he gets a bit funny about this, then maybe all he wants is sex.
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reader, jam jar +, writes (20 February 2009):
 you should get to know him better before you rush into any hasty decisions. once you know him well enough to be sure what your both going to do then you can find out whether his love is true.
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