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anonymous
writes:Hello, so i've been on chemistry.com for 3 months and i keep getting matches that have everything i want in a guy but the best match was a gay guy. i dont have anything wrong with that now that i've gotten to know him (over facebook) and he wants to meet me in person like on a date and its tonight so big question. have i turned a gay guy straight?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009): No one can turn anyone a particular way. A person born a certain way, stays that certain way forever. What you did is simply allowing that person the opportunity to act on the other part of his sexuality. Often times, with society as it has always been, a lot of people are suppressed to believe they are one particular sexuality or more accurately, pressured to believe they are heterosexual.
So this guy that likes you and wants to be with you could mean that his sexual preference also includes women or his attraction towards women is greater.
Remember, a bisexual man or woman can still be married to a man or a woman forever. Being bisexual is just a broader preference. When in love with someone, the choice was made to be with that person. They're actually two different things.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009): It's not possible to turn a gay guy straight, ever, he might be bisexual though so there's always a possibility.
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