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writes:Hi my name is ray I'm 22 and in a relationship with a 16 year old and its not working out i want to find me someone close to my age from 18-40 that don't lie and don't cheat who is honest i don't lie i don't cheat I'm honest mature sweet caring romantic and respectfully ok where can i find miss right? is she out there somewhere? someone please help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009): To Anon below: You're assuming "Ms. Legal" is someone over the age of 18. In Canada and parts of the USA, the legal minimum age is 16 to engage in sexual activities with. However, DATING SOMEONE isn't illegal, regardless.
I just wanted to point this out. ^_^
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009): I think finding Ms. Legal is difinitly a step in the right direction for you. What could you possibly have in comon with a 16 year old girl at the age of 22? Your post sounds as if you feel a little bit let down and angry about not getting the things you are seeking out of her, but a 16 year old child is not suppose to be mature or ready to settle down with one specific guy. I do not think you should be mad at her. You should probably just be happy that her parents have not had you arrested and move on. As far as the things you are looking for, well while the things you have listed does sound about right for a 22 year old man to want, I think your first step would be getting some counceling and finding out what is was that attracted you to a 16 year old girl to begin with. This may help you to find out what changes you may need to make within yourself so that you are able to attract and be attracted to people within your age group. I am in no way trying to be mean to you. You are the one saying that you know what you want, but you don't know how to get it. I am only giving you my suggestions on how you could obtain what you are looking for more easily. Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009): ANYWAY... [coughs] I suggest breaking off the current relationship first, THEN move on to find someone more suitable for you. According to some of my friends whom have tried it, I would suggest online dating services to find someone for yourself. Lavalife, PlentyOfFish and even Craigslist. Alternatively, speed dating if you're brave enough.
Of course, you also have to remember that "dating" is just another way of saying, "Trial and error" or "Experimentation". So be mindful that you may go through more than just one woman before you find someone that fits you.
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