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Do I call or text him?

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Question - (20 February 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *1984 writes:

I have had strong feelings for a certain guy for about 4 months now. I was lead to believe that he felt the same way, as he asked our mutual friends to set up a double date. Apparently, he has remarked "how good I looked" a few times, which my friend said he never says. She said that he tends to keep his love life to himself, but when it came to me, it seemed to be different.

BUT, as things dragged on and on and nothing seemed to happen between us, he started seeing another girl. They dated on/off for two months, but none of his friends liked the girl, and he "dumped" her two weeks ago.

I now have his mobile number, and REALLY want to just come out and say how I feel and ask him how he feels, but I'm worried that he thinks that it has all blown over between us. Saying that, he has been acting quiet around me for the past two months and any conversation has been quite awkward. I'm not sure whether its because he still likes me, or whether he doesnt like me anymore and feels strange talking to me!??! Either way, I just want to sort things out. I want to know if hes still interested in going out sometime, but if hes not interested, I'd also like for us to clear the air and try to resume normal conversation. We're not going to be able to avoid each other, so I want know what hes thinking!!

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