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36-40,
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writes:Ok, I Love my Girl friend to death, she treats me like royalty and hardly ever tells me no however her attitude towards other people is harsh and cold. How do i Tell her that she needs an attitude adjustment or better yet a personality revamp without offending her or affecting our relationship?? Thanks Cupid Reply to this Question
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reader, anoms  +, writes (20 February 2009):
 just talk to her without sounding to harsh or judgmental, you could approach her like "hey is everything okay? a couple of our friends were a little hurt when you said....or did....!" dont use words like "rude" or "nasty" or she may think you have already made up your mind, good luck.
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reader, loyal +, writes (20 February 2009):
loyal is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey Appreciate the quick responds, One more question, What if she is extremely sensitive to criticism from me and takes most of my advice out of context, then what. Ive seen her go in to this defensive mode where she responds to my opinions with comments like " well i had no idea you felt that way about me". Or she'll just cry and give me the silent treatment because her feelings are fragile.
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reader, anoms +, writes (20 February 2009):
is it possible shes just very protective of you and only acts like this when your around her, if so she could just be in need of extra attention from you, gudluk.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009): RECORD HER IN ACTION ON A FEW OCCATIONS AND SAY NOTHING, LET HER SEE FOR HER SELF.
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