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*ute_lily
writes:I am in love with the man of my dreams. We have been together for quite a bit of time, however towards the end of last year, around oct-nov time, I started develpoing feelings for another guy. This other guy, is just a friend but I started getting attracted to him. I stopped all contact with him becausse I was scared it was going to lead to something. Just recently I got an email from him, inviting me to his band's gig. I really want to be just friends with him but he wants more. he doesn't know about my boyfriend as we've had to keep our relationship a secret for several reasons. How do I tell my friend that I want to be friends and nothing more when I haen't spoken to him in months. Reply to this Question
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (20 February 2009):
 I think you may have to be honest about it and tell him you have a boyfriend. Secret relationships are NEVER a good idea!
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