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Everytime I see him I feel emotional about not being able to have him

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Question - (20 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 February 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

this might sound really sad. but i dont know if this is 'love' or not. i am 15 and have never went near a boy - not that i dont want to i just havnt i am about the only person i know that hasnt kissed or had a boyfriend. anyways i go to this sport once in a while and i had a massive crush on the guy that worked there and he is about 20. i thought it was just a crush, the first time a saw him was a year ago and i forgot about him by not going to the sport acticity anymore. but i love the activity, i dont go very often though. anyways i went yesterday and saw him again seriously my heart leapt out of my chest. i feel angrey and jelous when he is with other people and i take sneaky photos of him. my eyes follow him around like their attatched. erh, i know this is pretty pathetic and nothing is going to happen obv but how to i get out of this emotional state. everytime i see him i feel emotional about not being able to have him? whats all this about... please help, thanks in advance Xxx

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (20 February 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntAs you have said yourself this is not love it is a crush and perfectly normal for a girl of your age. Unfortunately the only thing that will help is time.

Enjoy the feeling but don't get too obsessed about this guy, I'm sure soon enough you will fine a guy closer to your own age and you will look back at this and laugh/cringe.

Good luck

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