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Dating: Help and advice

Why would an older guy like a much younger girl?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Why would an older guy like a much younger girl? I'm concrned for my younger sister who is a freshman at 14, dating a senior at 18. I told her no good will come of it, but she isn't listening. If someone could help me to understand why he was so ...

Trust issues with bi-sexuals and weed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - Okay, well where to begin? There are so many different factors but they all lead to one thing, I have an incredibly hard time trusting my girlfriend. We have been dating for about 6 months now, and have known each other since September. ...

Help! Struggling with abusive partner and it's making me ill.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Hi I really need some advice about my partner. We've been together for about 5 years during which time he was going through a divorce from his estranged wife. Over the years I noticed more and more that he can be verbally abusive. He said that ...

Can being in a rebound relationship or having rebound sex make you miss your ex more and realize?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - My ex recently came back saying that being in a rebound relationship, which he had for a month (I am not sure if he was in a relationship or just had some rebound sex) made him realize how precious I am to him, how he cannot live without me and so ...

This bartender at my local pub, does he like me, or not?

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15 April 2009 (F) - There is this man who works behind the bar at my local pub who asked me who's birthday it was when i was there last year celebrating my birthday on a saturday night and i told him it was mine next tuesday and he asked would i be coming in then to ...

He's the perfect guy, except he keeps texting his ex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for almost 2 years and I think he is absolutely perfect! He is sweet, caring, Always supportive of me, gorgeous body and face, and amazing in bed. He is 19 and already making almost a thousand dollars a day, smart, fun to ...

Men - Can you hold and cuddle a woman all night if you don't really have any feelings for them??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Men - Can you hold and cuddle a woman all night if you don't really have any feelings for them?? My boyfriend and I snuggle up in bed at night but as yet he hasn't really made a passionate move on me! - He cannot be shy as he already has a child wi...

I'm in love... but confused!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time now. I have stuck by him through a lot of problems he has had. He quit his job and is still unemployed. He drinks daily and has made it clear there is no way he will marry me anytime soon. ...

Cell Phones and Relationships - Where to draw the line?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - There have been a few instances where my fiance has been caught lying about a woman he works with. Little lies that have made me think, "why is he lying about this?" - the fact that he is covering up non-events with lies makes me wonder if he is ...

Does anyone out there think I am being selfish and ungrateful?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I've been dating a man for about 2.5 years. I'm living with him as I had to give up my condo to enter alcohol rehab for a month. I maxed out all my credit cards to pay the $12K costs of treatment and am up to my ears in debt. Prior to this ...

14, he's 18, does that makehim a pedo?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - hi, im a 14, and my boyfriends 18. i know alot of people think its weird, sick, wrong, etc. but i really like him, and we were friends for months before he asked me out. the thing is, one of my friends told me that hes lik a pedo.. i dont thiink its ...

I do want to meet someone nice but am afraid of getting hurt..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - I am 37 and have been separated from my ex wife for 2 and half years,i have 4 children who i have joint custody of. In the last two years i have dated many women, most who would have wanted to have a relationship with me but i have never felt ...

I know I love this guy so why am I unhappy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - Idk what to do any more. I know i love this girl why am i unhappy? I cant figure it out. I've given this girl everything and she has given me everything. I know she is the one for me. I want to be with her but i'm having a hard time with this. ...

Does she love me? Or some other guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - I like and love this girl a lot that I dont want to miss her for a moment. But off late she has fought with me thrice ti 4 times. But everytime she has come back and been normal as before the fight. She comes out with me on dates also. On many dates ...

Are one-night stands really the norm?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - I have a bad feelings about one night stands. I see that many people have had one night stands in their lives which I think is very slutty to me. If I had a girlfriend I wouldn't be with a girl who has had one night stands because I want someone who ...

Is he just flirting with me or does he really like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Hello, Lately I been going crazy about this boy named JK his same age as me but turning 17 this year and I’m 16. Today I saw him when I was walking to school he kept looking behind to see me and at the end he crossed the road and then looked...

Fallen head over heels for a girl I can never be with!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - I don't know where to begin. Im in my 20s and currently studying. I never really had a childhood or even anything during my teens. I've spent my entire life alone and isolated. However rescently my life is beginning to pick up. I made the most am...

Still waiting for my first kiss!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I'm 15 turning 16 in May. I have never had my first kiss not even a peck. I've had 1 bf before.The fact that i haven't been kissed has always made me insecure, but lately i've felt terrible. What's wrong with me? I feel so ugly and unwanted. My ex ...

My best friend is trying to steal my man!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - i liked this guy before that me and my friend were gonna meet up with and i showed her a picture of him and she was like oo hes nice i hope you two get together. When we were out she was getting in the middle of us dancing and kept whispering things ...

My boyfriend has made me anorexic and still wants me to lose weight, what can I do?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I got with my bf when I was 11 years old and since I turned 13 he started controling my life. I am now 15 and he is nerly 18 and when I was 13 he told me I was fat and told me I had to loose weight. I weighed 8 st 2 at the time and he wanted me to ...

Feeling insecure about my bf watching porn, would us watching it together help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I've been living with my boyfriend for almost 4 months now and we've been together for about a year. I had always assumed that he watched porn, and I've never had any issues with it because I know most people do (myself included). Although I've ...

Is my 36 year old boyfriend sexually retarded?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Im 24, he is 35. We have been dating for 5 months and moved in together 2 months ago. The first few months we had sex just about every day; it was really good and lasted a while. We often tried different positions and kept it fun. For about a mo...

My fiance likes to wear my daughter's underwear!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend/fiance for a year now and we live together along with my 15 yr old daughter and his 15 yr old son.. about 4 months into our relationship I did a load of laundry for him and found a pair of womens underware in his ...

My boyfriend is giving up on his friends and spending all his time with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I'm really worried i'm separating my boyfriend away from his friends. He seems to spend all his spare time with me, and he's never with them, and whenever I suggest it his response is always "I'd much rather spend my time with you" I'm flat...

Was I unreasonable about his cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - My bf cheated on me in feb with his ex gf and after alot of tears on both sides i agreed to take him back,On the condition he have NO contact with her.My exact words were "no calls,texts,online talk, Dont talk to her in lessons or anything at scho...

My ex jumped straight into bed with her ex immediately after we broke up, why??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - Hi.. Me and my girlfriend of 4 years broke up 2 weeks ago and ive just found out that she has been sleeping with her ex!! She was stringing me along also and giving me hope that we might get back together, but now its just out of the question. I ...

Why does a girl cry when you tell her you're in love with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - I told a girl that I'm really good friends with that I'm in love with her and she started crying. What does this mean? We kissed on one occassion after she broke up with her boyfriend about 2 months ago and I told her that I had feelings towards...

The answer in the face of question

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - I've been in a long term relationship with my boyfriend for a year and a half. Things were awesome at first! But my fears became true, the honeymoon phase ended and now all we seem to do is fight, argue, and not get along. I can't say that the ...

I thought he likes me, but he keeps mentioning his ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Hey there I hope u have a few mins this is quite a long one :-) Me and my boyfriend had quite a turbulent relationship for the last year(i was with him for a year) and we split up about 2 months ago. I got talking to a guy from uni, over the inter...

Should I stay single, or go back to my ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years on 6th January, having cheated on him for the second time (when drunk still not an excuse). I am a terrible person and am trying to become better. I still think about him all the time, but he deserves better, ...

Still in love with my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - Im at a crossroads, roughly three months ago my ex girlfriend and I ended our four year relationship. She was also my best friend. I still do not have any idea of where it went south and as much as i tried i never got a real explanation. We kind ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I'm 15 and so are 1 and my other male friend. At school me and my friends were playing around and one of my mates pushed me by accident I kind of tripped lol and I fell on this boy call him 1. When I fell on 1 he smiled and gazed into my eyes...

My boyfriend is not the love of my life!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Hi my name is Soda, I have a boyfriend of 7 months,I hate that he is so freaking controling. I mean I am the biggest flirt but still, wtf? Like, I thought he was the most amazing guy on the planet. What the hell was I thinking? I have lost the spar...

My ex told me I can only see our son every other week. Can she do that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - ive recently split after a 6yr relationship with my ex.we have a 11 month old boy together who we both love dearly..she left me 2 months ago and took our son too..she is now living with her mom and sister.. during the 6 yrs she has cheated 6 time...

He says we don't need to constantly have our tongues down each others throats to show affection!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I'm really worried the sparks going from our relationship. Me and my boyfriend never really properly kiss anymore, it's just a few pecks here and there, is this a sign that he's going off me? He said it was because he didn't see the point in ...

I don't want him to be friends with girls unless they are my friends too!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend doesn't really have much time for friends. But when he does, it seems that his guy friends have turned into ass holes..and he doesnt want to hang out with them. He started talking to a girl that he has been friends with for the past 4 ...

Should I confront him and wait to see his response?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Hi Descriptions of me(so you can answer more effectively): I'm 18 and 144cm tall chinese. im loud, cheerful, lazy, happy-go-lucky and a gamer. Just started studying A levels in T college. Had 1 bf before J. Lives in a conservative environment...

First pregnancy anxieties.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 April 2009 (?) - I'm 19 and last night I found out I was pregnant. I took a pregnancy test after having cramps and sore breasts pretty much constantly for around a fortnight. My periods have been slightly irregular for around the last four months so I'm not entirely ...

I see my FWB once a week, is that too much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5706 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - do you think seeing an FWB about once a week is too much? i've been in this type of relationship with a guy who i dated for two months and then we decided it would be best to keep it casual. the thing is, i worry am i pushing too much if i ke...

My ex told my b/f that we had sex. Is my bf mad at me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - i slept with my ex boyfriend last week, and he told my new boyfriend that we slept, i only had sex with him for like 7 minutes. my new boyfriend wont talk to me, keeping tell me to leave him alone...

Should I believe his explanation on the text msg he sent to "personals" ads?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Hi. I was planning to move across the country in 2 weeks time to the small town where my partner lives to start the rest of our lives together.. Marriage, family, picket fence etc.. 2 days ago I read through his sent messages on his phone. I found 4 ...

Any ideas on why this sudden reluctance to proceed when kissing??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5706 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Dear firends, I am a bit perplexed and i would really appreciate your input. I met this guy who is 29 during Christmas ( we both work abroad and we met back home during holiday). we had a couple of dates but given the fact that we both work abroad...

He wants to take things slow. Good or Bad thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Any advice men or women appreciated. I'm with a man who I have known for 7 years, recently we have become a couple and we have both decided that it's time that we settle down and have decided to make things work between us.His past relationships ...

How can I know if he is still feeling the same for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5706 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship for the last four months. After long search and many unsuccessful ones, I believed I have found my compatible match. He is from Italy and I'm from Malaysia. We are both in our early 40s and desire for a serious ...

I love him and his daughter, but his ex is saying lies this week. How do I handle the situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Okay so me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years, We had got together when i was 16, and have been together ever sense. He is 8 years older then me and has an ex wife and a daughter. Me and his daughter get along great she looks as me as a...

I'm always being used by guys!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - 4 years ago when i was a virgin i was raped by a friend. I never told anyone except my ex who got drunk and told more people including my best friend and her bf, my brother and sister in law... and threatened to tell my dad.. (i know great guy?)and ...

What kind of girl do guys like best?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Hey y'all! Okay me and my friend have this thing going ondo she told me to ask it on here so guys what kind of girl do u like the best outgoing, funny or shy, quiet? Please answer!;)...

How should I approach her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - hello everyone. so there is this girl i like a lot, but i dont talk to her a whole lot. we've had a small class together for the last two years. i recently started to message her on myspace and she just stopped replying to my messages. i gave her my ...

I'm lonely and want something different in my life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - A few months ago I decided to give up on guys. But it feels like just about everyone has a boyfriend/girlfriend. I'm lonely and want something different in my life, to feel good again and have someone to care about. How do I get back on the dating ...

I can't be that bad can I? WHY can't I get a boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Ok i'm 16 going on 17 and i have never had a BF.idk y i cant get 1.i'm not fat and ugly. I weigh only 120 and i am 5'7. i'm growingmy hair out right now 2 get it in a cute style that i want, but right now my hair is blackish brown and is about at ...

Confused! She gives hints that she wants to date..but then I don't know!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5706 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - okay so this girl started talking to me and i started talking to her.she has been through alot and has a baby and her ex boyfriend beat her up..i was just trying to be a freind and help her out.then we would talk more and more evryday like almost 8 ...

Been together for 2 years and he still doesn't want to meet my parents?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5706 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years and he thinks it's still too early to meet my parents. He is 50 and I am 43. Is this normal?...

I don't know what's going on but I don't want to lose her to someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - i met this girl a while ago and we started texting and talking on the phone, we hung out a couple of times and i began to realize for a reason i still don't know, that she was special and different than anyone else i'd ever met. now i don't want to ...

My boyfriend thinks I flirt too much!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - hi, my bf thinks i flirt to much but i dont think i do, he thinks laughing with some other guy is flirtying, flirting is oart of my personaily, i am trying hard to work not flirt, so can you help me please, what should i do...

Her mom found out we are sexually active and has threatened to press charges against me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - I am 17 and my girlfriend is 15. Her mom found out we are sexually active and has threatened to press charges against me. I never forced her, but can I still get in trouble....

I can't seem to satisfy like I did with the other girls

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

15 April 2009 (?) - Hi I am having a problem... well to start I am 18 and I have had sex with 3 different girls, then the 4th is my girlfriend now, well we have been together for 8 months and we have only been having sex for about 2 and a half months, but we don't do ...