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Dating: Help and advice

Could going on birth control make her depressed for a week?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

3 April 2009 (M) - I've been seeing this girl for about 3 months. Everything was wonderful up until about a week ago. She stopped texting me and whenever I see her she seems unhappy at the fact that I'm around and she doesn't show any affection to me at all. But ...

Met someone new and better than my boyfriend. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - I have been on and off with my boyfriend of almost two years. I feel like our relationship has gone through a very rough patch. It is not easy, even though we loved each other. All these times I have been working hard to make the relationship to ...

How do I get out of being naked at a sauna on a second date?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - I have just started seeing this guy and for our second date he wants us to go for a sauna. I have never been before and I am a little worried what do you wear, he says he wears nothing, I am not up for that on a second date, I am not that confident ...

How can you tell for sure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - I am interested in a guy at work he says he likes me but I am unsure if he seriously likes me or if he is playing me. How can you tell for sure? How can I ask him in without him knowing?...

Do good looking guys have problems getting gf's?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - Are good looking guys always able to get girlfriends?...

How should I handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5707 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - A couple of months back, I went to New Orleans with a group of friends. I met this girl, and we hit it off. We kept in touch, and even met half way between where she lives and where I live last weekend. Anyway, the last couple of days have been ...

His family wont leave the x out of family functions

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - The guy I am with is 17 yrs younger. But we had at times a great relationship. He is very reliable and I believe he loves me. but we have a huge problem. He had a bad childhood,(dad married his girlfriend when he was 16, helf sister had control ...

How do I get closer to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - hey i would like some help i want to get closer with my boyfriend, we have been dating for a year and a half and we havent really got very close any ideas on how i can get closer to him.?...

Dating 3 women, want to cut it down to 1...help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 April 2009 (M) - I'm hoping someone can help me out here. I'm in a pretty desperate situation at the moment. You see, I've been dating three women simultaneously for the past 3 years and now I want to cut that number down to to one. The first girl I'm with, Clara,...

How do I start up a conversation with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - i finally go out with the boy i like, about a week ago he asked me out and i said yes. but we dont speak or that, and he thinks i ignore him and avoiding him and i think the same about him. he's not usually quoet but when he's with me he goes all ...

How do I be more affectionate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 April 2009 (M) - Im in love with the most beautiful girl ever. I admitt that we have had many problems but we resolved everyone of them! She asks that I be more affectionate, how do I do that? I am way affectionate now so how do I expand this territory for her? ...

I cant help my self to be so insecure

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - my fiance and i have been together for almost three year now.. there is a 7 yr age difference between us.. at the begining of our relationship (about 3-5 months into the realtionship) i caught him a couple of times looking a his ex's page (his f...

Does he want me to break up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - HELP - What is happening here? - I am confused! - I have been seeing this guy who is quite unreliable - eg he says he will ring then doesn't - he says he will meet then can't... etc etc. As well as this I am sure he still sees his ex too! I have ...

Did I ruin everything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - I like a guy and we had this stupid fight. We stopped talking to each other for a while and I just heard from people that he had a gf. But then I catch him staring/glancing (even before he had a gf) at me with those sparkles in his eyes. And he...

I am at my wits end with my girlfriend and her antics.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

3 April 2009 (M) - Ok bear with me here because this is a bit of a long story. I love my girlfriend and we have been living together for 6 months. The entire time we have been going out, she has never cared how I feel about anything. About 10 months ago, I ...

She doent want to post our pics

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 April 2009 (M) - what kind of relationship do we have if we have sex go on dates but she dont want our pics on myspace?...

It seems like she can't make up her mind

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

3 April 2009 (M) - This feels like a roller coaster ride. The girl of my dreams, my girlfriend of over a year broke up with me about 6 months ago. Both at different colleges and she decided she did not want a boyfriend. I was crushed. I was, and still am, truly in ...

Unwanted but eager to be in a relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - Anyone out there is having the same problem as mine? I'm terribly depressed dat i'm still single.Frankly i am really yearning to be in a relationship so much.Well,i'm still very young i know(i'm just a teenage girl),but my friends around me are invo...

If he was interested, wouldn't he ask me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - I am not sure if this guy is interested or not. We have known each other for about a year, we work together, we chat all the time, he always asks how I am and seems to be showing an interest, he has my telephone number and send me messages now and ...

My friends say use him for some fun, but I'm afraid I'll get attached

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - Some thoughts are very welcome. I am interested in this guy I work with, he leaves in July. He was shown an interest in me for a while but he has made it clear that he only wants a bit of fun nothing serious, we have kissed once unfortuanetly at...

We're not on the same level of comittment

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for over a year now. we got into a huge arguement over several issues the other night. he told me flat out that he does not want marry me anytime in the near future. toward the end of this i told him that i ...

Is it ok to tell her that I'm sexually frustrated?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

3 April 2009 (M) - Hey guys, I want to ask one question; Is it disrespectfull to tell your girlfriend that you are sexually frustrated? Well I am 17 years old, and my girlfriend is 16. We are dating for like 10 months now. I haven't ever foreced her to have ...

What is the best way to say that I don't think of him as a boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - well , the story is that from about 1 month felt tht i like some guy in the college and i thought he liked me 2 coz he couldn't stop lookin at me wherever i go .. and from a week exactly we set down together and just talked and talked he liked me ...

Where is this going? Do I still have a chance to make this work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - Can someone give me an advice on what to do? I have met this man in 1999; in 2001 I gave birth to his child a baby boy. I always loved him and I still have feelings for this man. I love him so much and never stop thinking about him, it has been ...

Surely this is what relationships are meant to be like?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend makes me feel so unhappy with myself. With his comments. I feel so low and have low self esteem and wonder who will want me if we spilt as I'm the kind of person who needs to feel loved and secure. But I'm not with him and it's an ...

Mutual attraction between my married friend and I...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - I am very good friends with a male friend whom I've known since the last 15 years and is an important part of my life. My male friend and I are very close and have had feelings for each other but never got around to voicing them. We both have been ...

How do I solve this on-again off-again stressfull relationship with an ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I posted on here before and got some really helpful answers, so I'm back again! My partner and I split up in March last year (he left and at the time I was unwell, which was really hurtful). Since then we've been sort of 'on/off' and...

She wants me to stop smoking. Should I change for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

3 April 2009 (M) - Ok I have a dilemma. Me and my girl have been going out for 7 months now. About everything is wonderful, but like every couple we have our issues. (not sure if the post is allowed, but it is a serious relationship problem i need help with) Plain ...

How do I tell a classmate I have a crush on her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

3 April 2009 (M) - Ok so I'm obsessed about a girl. I don't know her that well because I can't keep a conversation for very long. I gaze into her big warm eyes and I loose what I was going to say next or I say something stupid. I often think and pray about her and ...

How do I interpret her flirting on the phone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 April 2009 (M) - Whenever she speaks to me on phone she keeeps on laughing and shows much interest in me as if she is responding me, but when I flirt her with soft love quotes she says plz dont misunderstand me what does it mean how do I make move to have her and ...

Guys input..would you find me attractive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - This question goes mainly to any guy. Would you find me attractive? I'm smart, responsible, tall, a little fat, and i have a nice smile. I'm also very pretty and i'm also very nice. I think what take most of the guys back is that i'm a little fat, ...

Involved with 2, trying to figure out how to get to see #2 without telling #1

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - A few months ago I got out of a 12-year relationship. Two or three months ago I started seeing a guy from work. We've been intimate, had sex, a really good time. We talk easily, laugh easily, and all that good stuff. He too recently got out of a ...

He cheated, confessed, apologized..but I can't let go

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - i have been in a relationship with a guy for almost a year now. he tells me he loves me and that i'm the most important thing in his life. well, two days ago, had a very serious discussion, and i found out that two months ago he cheated on me twice ...

We're crazy about each other but she doesn't want to be with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 April 2009 (M) - I'm heartbroken. I've been interested in this girl for years. She's always been interested in me. She told me quite frankly how her world turns upside down when she's with me. We have a wonderful time when we go out... but she says she's not ...

How do I go about dating 2 people at once?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 27 and just recently got out of a 3 year relationship and I seem to be over it because it just wasn't working and I knew it wasn't and had been waiting to end it for a while. Now, the thing is that I've recently started working (my firs...

I lost my fiancee AND my best friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - Two days ago was my wedding day. I had been with my supposed-to-be husband for a year and two months but there was a conflict. You see, my best guy friend of nearly a decade stood up from his seat in the third row at my wedding and called out, 'I ...

He isnt showing his love to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - I feel like my boy friend of 41/2 years which is my first of everything is not showing actions for the things he say. for example: he say he loves me but he show other. he dont take my feelings in consideration, when he know the problem or the ...

How do I make him mine?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - I met this guy and i really like him we have only got to hang out once in person, but he text me and IMs me we have great conversations. he ask me what i wanted and in a relationship and told me he didn't have alot of time right now because of his ...

Boyfriend wants to go flying...But I think I am pregnant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend wants me to go out with him and experience a demo flying lesson this weekend! Plus, we're both volenteering at a church fair and of course we'll be going up and down on all the rides. The thing is..I think I might be pregnant. It's o...

Boyfriend treats me bad but I love him...What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - hello everyone im 16 years old and iv been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years on and off. we have so much going on and so many problems. wheb we first started to go out in july of 07 everything was perfect. then towards september of 07 things ...