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writes:Idk what to do any more. I know i love this girl why am i unhappy? I cant figure it out. I've given this girl everything and she has given me everything. I know she is the one for me. I want to be with her but i'm having a hard time with this. Anyone have any advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, niki20 +, writes (15 April 2009):
 being unhappy at a job can make you feel unhappy, even if your unhappy with yourself will effect your happiness w/ her. if you have financial problems that can be a big issue you to. dont just look at the picture between you to.look at the even bigger picture
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reader, PeanutButter +, writes (15 April 2009):
 Sometimes when we have everything we want, we start to strive for something else - perhaps your not unhappy with the girl, perhaps you are unhappy with your life in other aspects - maybe you need to look for new ways to live and laugh with this woman, grab a holiday or take some time out or change your personal goals or get a new hobby - sometimes feeling good in life enhances the goodness in a relationship - if you are sure she is it or you, find something that gives you interest when spending time with yourself to complete you as a person in your own right!
Alternatively, if you are having doubts, is she really everything you want or is she everything you THINK you SHOULD want in a person? sOMETIMES they are different things.
good luck xx
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reader, Fiona xxx  +, writes (15 April 2009):
 How long have you been together? After a while relationships do feel different, you still love each-other but it's in a more level-headed way rather than a head-over-heals distracting way that invades your thoughts in work etc.
Have you had one or two arguments recently? If so love and hate can be very close and sometimes the more you love somebody the more you can hurt or be hurt by them.
Are you simply questioning things in the way you might with any other decision, eg how long have you worked in your current job, are you still happy, same as to do with your current house/flat and if you are happy living there etc. I think with anything in life we always re-evaluate if things are going how you want and you are happy etc.
Do I make sense. I am wondering if all this isn't sinister.
Fiona.
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