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Archived questions from: April, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Is it wrong of me to want her ex gone from our lives?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Okay so..I have run out of options and need advice. This might be long so sorry ahead of time. My gf and i have been together for a year and 4 months. Now the problem is that my gf is moving to a new place and her ex is her friend that is m...

Where can I take her on a first date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - Well, I recently asked out a girl, who to my surprise said yes. It feels a bit stupid to ask her where she wants to go on a first date...so I want to take the initiative and want to make it something good and memorable. Any ideas...? ...

I want his friends to like me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now. He knows i'm very shy, and tomorrow we're going out with his best friend and his best friends girlfriend. I've met them before but i haven't talked to them much. I don't know how to start a ...

I am not high on his priority list

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - my boyfriend is good man,gives me lots of affection. yet i can't help but feel that i'm one of the lower priorites in his life.whenever i wanna do something,go somwhere,ask him to do somthing,it's always wait,i'm tired or i have plans with my ...

I'm not pretty, will anyone ever love me?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4247 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - ok i am going to be 100% honest and realistic about my situation however sad it sounds! Recently i fell in love with a guy. The first time i have ever fell in love. I don't think he felt the same way but he gave me a taste of how amazing it is to...

How can you know if a guy indeed likes you or just wanted to make fun of you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - how can you know if a guy indeed likes you or just wanted to make fun of you from the first time he started talking to you? if he showed almost all the possible signs he's into you,let you insult him and kinda put him down in front of his best ...

My girlfriend won't let me take her to climax

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - Hi, I can't get my current girlfriend to cum. i dont think my method is to blame as she says she has never climaxed with anyone and i have never had this problem with other girls. i always make sure to spend alot of time on foreplay alot of...

What can I do. Any mantras I can repeat or something. Maybe garlic and a holy cross?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - Things didn't work out after I dated a girl in my class. She says she's crazy about me but chose to go out with another dude. As if she expected me to believe that messed up logic. Forget friendship, I'm not wasting my time siting on her back ...

I have Social Phobia and am paranoid about my boyfriend cheating

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - First off, I have Social Phobia - i'm scared of people, I can't leave my house alone. Now, my partner's aunt's anniversary is coming up soon and they're having a big party for it, mainly punk music, you know. All his family and some of their fr...

Is there any hope here or am I just waiting (alone) and wasting my time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - First let me say, thank you all for reading this and helping me out the best you can. Here is the situation I am facing: My ex fiancee and I were together for almost 4 years. We have a child in common. He has lied and cheated on me quite a b...

Why doesn't he ever learn?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - When my boyfriend's plans change, he never ever tells me, and always waits until I ask him. The other week, we were supposed to see each other on the saturday, but he went to stay with his Dad on friday at the last minute, but didn't tell me until I ...

He provides everything for me, apartment, money and everything I ask him for, I do not work. He thinks I depend on him too much, is this true?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

30 April 2009 (?) - My bofriend thinks i depend on him too much, i don't think so. he provide everything for me, apartment, money and every thing i ask him for, i do not work, when we just started out he said he wants to spoil me, and he is doing just that. i don't ...

When should I see him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5721 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I recently spent 4 solid days with a guy i met off the net. he is 18 yrs my senior ...no comments on age difference please as it is really not relevant to either of us ...we are very aware of how we could eb perceived etc and our interests span the ...

Another chance? OR forget it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - hey, i know this girl likes me very much but before i talked to her and things went ok then i sent her message on holiday and she said that i have a boyfriend and i dont want you as a friend and she hasnt any boyfriend so i said ok it was my fau...

Like me? View me as a good friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - Hullo... I'm single and im just curious if this girl likes me... I only recently (3-4 months ago) broke up with my first girlfriend of a year and have no idea who i like yet. A very nice friend of mine gave me her number at a BBQ because alth...

Help.....Why???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Hi...after 3 years of dating, I feel lost. I don't exactly know what I want from my ex who broke up with me a month ago. This was so sudden that I am so hurt. We have had problems, but I have been the one trying to cater to his ego. He is a ...

He's angry because I have a boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - i have a bit of a problem with a mate. I was with my new boyf and i was holding hands with him walking down a road. In one of the passing cars one of my friends who saw me. He hasnt talked to me since and storms past me whenever he sees me. I've ...

He never spends time with me anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - My mate stays gone all day but sleep home everynight. He doesnt have much time for me if any time. I feel he is seeing someone else but he says he isnt. Am i being foolish or is he trying to let me know he is cheating? (but doesnt know which one ...

Tempted by another man...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Me and my Boyfriend have been together 4 years off and on, im sure i love him i know he loves me, but ive been talking to another guy and met up with once, im 23 and im not sure if its being with him from such a young age....now im tempted to ...

Does he want to give up on us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I have been hanging out with this guy off and on for 5 months. I text him and ask,Can we try and have a relationship? He says,i will have to think about the whole relationship thing. A day went by and i still had not heard anything from him. I ...

We have liked each other for 5 years but now after telling me he loves me he is being off with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - i have been in love with a guy for about 5 years,(lets call him x) we didnt go out but confessed that we liked each other 5 years ago, i had work things going on and my friend liked him aswell so nothing came of it. As that was happening i met ...

Was he telling the truth when he was drunk or was he not thinking stright?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I am so confused. Last week a guy at my work who I have liked for a long time bumped into me on a night out, he bought me a couple of drinks and invited me and my friends to come along with him for the rest of the night. While I am at the toilets ...

We only have sex about once a month but I want more!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Hi,iv been with my bf for nearly four years now and living together for 2. I love being with him cos we have loads in commen and everything but he just doesnt get intimate with me much at all anymore,it hurts when we go to bed at night and he wont ...

Is he just using me to get back at his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - My friend didn't talk to me for about a year, when he was having trouble with his relationship he started talking to me again. then he broke up with his girlfriend, 2 weeks later we slept together, and have been ever since, but not in a relationship ...

I think I am a little slow on the up-take...does this guy like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Hi. I am 24 and have only had two boyfriends and those i met through school and college. Now i have gone one step further and met a guy at work. Now i am feeling a little rusty, since it has been 2 years since my last relationship broke up and i ...

Can another person make you anxious or be the cause of irrational behaviour?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5721 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Hi, my question is, can someone make u anxious or be the cause of irrational behavour. My boyfriend is a good person but i hav noticed that i change when i am around him. Wen we were together i had problems with anxiety then after we split it seemed ...

I'm not anyone's girlfriend but all these guys keep getting mad at me!

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30 April 2009 (F) - fucking men give me a head ache. i have always had my fair share of men. all kinds of guys. i havent been single for a very long time it used to be days before i had found me a new one. and now since i moved to the boonies of up state new york i ...

I told my crush how I felt but I still don't know how he feels!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - So I finally decided to tell my crush how I feel. Didn't work out well. I tried speaking in our native tongue, but I ended up stuttering so I decided to speak in English. I actually planned everything I was going to say, but they all slipp...

I'm terrible at reading women!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - My problem is, I am terrible at reading females. Unless it is very obvious, I can't always tell if a female is interested in me or not. There is this one female that I am interested in; the first time I asked her out she told me she wasn't single, ...

She wont let go of her past, should I let her go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - Hi I'm in this relationship with this girl she's 26, extremely pretty and sweet. I believe her main problem is that I've noticed she can't let go of her past, an ex-boyfriend to be specific. She says she is not in love with him, but she's constantly ...

Is he being my friend or playing mind games with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - A guy I work with is married and we are friends. I gave him the cold shoulder to adjust my self after an hurtful 'emotional affair', we did nothing wrong as he would stress to me. during a abreif make up session he said we are cut from the same ...

I'm scared I will end up ruining this relationship too!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5458 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Hey everyone! Hope someone can give me some advice. I'm in a really great relationship with a guy I really care about, but I seem to be in danger of ruining it in the same way that I have several of my previous relationships. The other night...

My boyfriend complains I don't tell him enough how I feel about him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I've only been with him for 4 months but he's complaining that he doesn't know if I like him or not and that I don't compliment him or tell him how much I like him. I just got out of a long term relationship and started this one shortly after. I ...

Our relationship is all one-sided but I'm having trouble letting go!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I really dont know what to do. I have been in a relationship with this guy 9 years my junior, usual story it was great at first, we have had lots of problems to be honest a lot he has caused, i could list a few incidences and in isolation, it doesnt ...

I'm not gay but I like the idea of it!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - hi ppl, im straight and have a gf, but i like this show i watch and its kinda guy on guy relationship show aimed at teenage girls. i like it cuz its funny and interesting, but when this 1 scene in the first episode where the 2 guys kiss, i just wish ...

Its still early days but I'm worried I'm being used!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for about a month now. We have a lot in common, and we have a great time when we're together, which has generally been at weekends. This weekend a friend of his in in town and naturally he's arranging to meet up with ...

She rejected me before but I still get the feeling she likes me more than a friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5189 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - I asked this girl out for a meal when I started to think of the possibility of something other than frienship. She never replied to my email asking her. Anyway, we have still met a few times since, and the strange thing is I still get the impressi...

Even though her ex has moved out I am still her secret lover and I want more!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - I've been married twice and have four children two from each marrage, I see my children every weekend and share holidays. Seven months ago through the internet I met up with a girl that I had not seen in 23 years. She was in a form of relationship ...

It always hurts when he penetrates me.

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30 April 2009 (F) - My problem is that when it's time for my partner to penetrate me it’s very painful and I do not know the cause of this but after trying it finally goes in but it's still hurts. What can we use so stop the pain and easy penetration....

My boyfriend is not affectionate...

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30 April 2009 (F) - Hi. So my bf and I have been together for almost 4 weeks and he seems to not be very affectionate. In the beginning before we met he said he wanted to kiss me and hold me, but every night we sleep together he is not affectionate and doesn't want ...

Could it be that he is jealous and still has feelings for me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5722 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - Hey thanks for reading. I recently brokw up with my ex 5 weeks ago, and we have remained good friends.... However a good friend came down from interstate last week. I spoke with with my ex and told him that a good friend was coming down, and sen...

Should I keep trying to hold this relationship together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5722 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - well me and my fiancee have been together for 3 years now.But he has changed alot towards me he hardly says he loves me he is not that caring anymore he hardly tries to make conversation but we always seem to argue over ridicuolous stuff.He gets mad ...

My bf called two other girls tried to hook up with them. Does he want to be single?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5722 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I recently found out that my bf had called two other girls in the past month and had tried to hook up with them. Nothing became of either of the situations but I was still devastated that he would even think of being with another woman. We have been ...

He isnt being straightforward with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I am a women who is liked by many men around me, but suddenly fall head over heels in crush with this new friend of mine, since am very frank women I just approached and told him that I like him and want to get to know him more ! At first he ...

Is he cheating? please let me know what you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Is he cheating? pls tell me what you think..thanks..? Hey guys..I need an objective opinion asap. I have been going out for a guy for 10 months. For the last 2-3 months we were on and off and every time we had a fight he would dump on me. I gu...

He wont tell anyone we are dating!

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30 April 2009 (F) - I am going out with a guy that doesn't want anyone to know we are dating. He says its because of his ex-girlfriend- she gets mad a lot and I'm friends with her. I think it's true but does he really like me?? ps- i love him...

Should I call or let it be?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I have been with this guy for a few months. He knows that I wont do anything with him unless I get some kind of commitment but he still can't call himself my b/f because he isn't ready and doesn't want to make promises he can't keep. He did, ...

Did he just lose interest?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I met a guy two weeks ago. Our first date went on for 5 hours, the second for more than 10, the third date we went for a drive and hung out, and the fourth we had dinner at his place and watched movies. We gradually got closer physically and the ...

Is she just the rebound girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5722 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - okay here's the story. my girlfriend and i went out for about 2 years. were both 15. and we broke up 2 or 3 weeks ago idk because she has to many bad habits smoking,drinkin, and always flirting with her ex. yeah she may seem like a bad girlfriend ...

need help on moving too fast!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5722 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Okay, So I have been with this guy for about 6 months, well we have been talking and we liked eachother. We went out once and it just didn't work and my parents made me break it off. Then we connected again and we were together but not going out ...