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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My bf cheated on me in feb with his ex gf and after alot of tears on both sides i agreed to take him back,On the condition he have NO contact with her.My exact words were "no calls,texts,online talk,Dont talk to her in lessons or anything at school or outside school.No Contact AT ALL,if i so much as hear you've looked at her in the wrong way its over straight away" he agreed but is this too much? Am i being unreasonable?
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (15 April 2009):
 Good on you! I think you have been very fair, but as the others have said, make sure you stick to your guns... One sniff and he's gone!
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reader, kissxmexagainx  +, writes (15 April 2009):
 you did the right thing. I can't believe you took him back at all! well good for you for not letting him talk to the other girl.
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reader, x-kitycatlok-x +, writes (15 April 2009):
 Go you! It's a very nice thing of you to take him back and he can't expect to get away with no punishment at all. This is a great way to make sure he won't cheat again. It's a fanstastic way to do it and I'm glad you made a stand with your boyfriend rather than just taking him back and letting him get away with it, meaning he may do it again. You're smart enough to know that he may do it again so eliminated the possibilities. That's smart. Not unreasonable.Wishing You The Bestxx
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (15 April 2009):
 no not at all!i am quite shocked you took him back to be honest.i mean once a cheater always a cheater.i mean what makes you think he won't do that again?your still young anyways.but i think you did right by it all.i wish i had the guts you have :P
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