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writes:I like and love this girl a lot that I dont want to miss her for a moment. But off late she has fought with me thrice ti 4 times. But everytime she has come back and been normal as before the fight. She comes out with me on dates also. On many dates she has also worn clothes which make me feel to go much closer to her. Thrice we have very close also. But in between she also said once that there is another guy who is her boy friend. Now I am not able to understand as to whether she really loves me or that some other guy. I am unable to figure out as she doesnt speak at all about that other guy with me. Please help .. Reply to this Question
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reader, Original shiraz!  +, writes (15 April 2009):
I think shes very unsure and until she knows it leaves you in an unstable situation too. Its alays hard when you love somebody but sometimes it doesnt fall the way you want and it can really hurt but theres always a reason for it, some things arent meant to be yet when your heart is in it it can literally crush you. If she has a boyfriend maybe you should spend some time alone? I know its not what you want but it will just get worse the more involved you get. She wont talk to you about the other guy probably out of respect, i think you need time apart if you really want a future. She will miss you and come back to you if its meant to be.
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