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writes:Men - Can you hold and cuddle a woman all night if you don't really have any feelings for them??My boyfriend and I snuggle up in bed at night but as yet he hasn't really made a passionate move on me! - He cannot be shy as he already has a child with another woman!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your answers - maybe he IS taking things slow - but he also kisses me with his eyes open!
By the way, thanks to Uncle Phil & Denny for consistantly replying to all these!
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reader, JuJuBeans  +, writes (16 April 2009):
I think the fact that he cuddles you all night is a pretty good sign that he cares for you.
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reader, vwomen +, writes (16 April 2009):
 How about this man really cares about you and just want to be intimate with you. Maybe he feels if he start a sexual relationship things would change between you and he. I don't think any man would cuddle up with you all night if he didn't to or want to.Just in case you didn't know there is a differance between intimacy and sex, and intimacy is want your getting.why do we women complain when a man only wants to have sex with us and doesn't want to commit to the relationship, but when he does push to have sex we think something wrong with him or us.Enjoy the intimacy, he could be getting what he wants from you and then moving on
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009): i would have to agree with what dEsTiNy has put about taking things slow and not making the same mistakes he made in past relationships. with regards to his kissing he might not be that great but not everyone can be good kissers. my suggestion would be why dont you make the all the moves. if he then go through with it then you'd have to ask him why?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009): No, I don't think you should be worried, but it's a fair bet he already is. Perhaps he feels he might not live up to your expectations, or is afraid he might get you pregnant and there could be any number of other things on his mind. The only way to get to the bottom of it is to have a bit of communication and talk to each other about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the answers folks! I guess I'll just have to accept he isn't very forward in the lovemaking department! - Actually - he's not such a great kisser either! - Should I be worried here?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009): I don't think I could, but that's me.Maybe he has a problem in that department, so instead of wondering if that might be the case, why not ask him why he only cuddles you and nothing else?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009): im not a man lol but i would like to reply to ur question... a guy can just cuddle u without makeing a move. maybe he wants to take things slow bc he really likes u and doesnt want to mess things up. why did his relationship with the mother of he child end? maybe he doesnt want to make the same mistake twice. dont think he doesnt care maybe he cares so much that he is willing to take things slow to make sure everything is perfect
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