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female
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51-59,
*anja
writes:I am in a long distance relationship for the last four months. After long search and many unsuccessful ones, I believed I have found my compatible match. He is from Italy and I'm from Malaysia. We are both in our early 40s and desire for a serious relationship that will lead to marriage. We have talked in length online about our background, family, and so much more. Just off lately he has seemed to be distance from me and never reply my emails as he frequent as he used to. I still give him some benefit of doubt afraid of loosing him cause he is by far the best thing ever happened to me.. (though I never said that to him) I prefer him to love me more and do the chasing rather the other way round.. How can I know if he is still feeling the same for me?
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (15 April 2009):
 the only thing i can suggest is that you ask him what's going on..i mean perhaps he feels the same as you maybe you ought to tell him how you feel rather than let him guess i mean guys can give up if they feel there is nothing there.perhaps that's what he is doing maybe he gives up?maybe he feels you don't feel for him anymore and he thinks fair enough i'll move on.all you can do is ask.another reason maybe that he has found someone else whom lives closer to home and he's trying to let you know without letting you know.trust me i've been there had a guy ignore me until i got the message rather than being man enough and just telling me.just tread carefully because he could be set out to hurt you but not let you know.and you don't want that to happen you need to ask him out right and straight ask him what the hell is going on and if he doesn't respond then i'd forget him move on you deserve better than thatHope this helps :)
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