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writes:ive been talking to this guy, alot!!!!we get along very well!! im really busy at the moment so he told me to call HIM when i can see him. you know, girls it dont work like that. but anyway. ill do that when i get the time.but when im going out with friends ill invite him along, but he says no. he says he only wants it to be us. and when i do see him i have to do it after im with my mates and theyve gone to do whatever. why does he do that?!?! i dont understand. not like my friends would be there the WHOLE time. i dont get that at all. help!!!another thing: he teases me about how many girls hes involved with and then says i know he has not got any one. why? why? oh and why? thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (26 October 2008):
He is trying to take you out on a date. He can't do that if your friends are around, and you won't take a night off from them so he's given up and told you to call when you want to see him.
Give him a night when you are free and go out with him then.
It sounds like you want a boyfriend who can just slot in with your friend and your life, but he wants a girlfriend who will make time for him and he can have to himself.
Go on a date but if you do not have time to see a guy in a real exclusive relationship and you just want someone to hook up with when you are out with your friends then tell him.
It's only fair.
Good Luck!! xx
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