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writes:Hey guys, Okay, so I'm going to get right to the point. I'm 14, and me and my boyfriend have been having unprotected sex with each other for 2 months. I know for a fact that I am not pregnant, and up until 3 days ago, the sex was normal but on Thursday we had sex and, I didn't tell him, but I didn't feel anyhting. Now I don't mean it didn't feel good, or that I didn't like the feeling, no, there was no feeling at all and then we had sex again the same day and the same thing happened. I need to know if this is normal [which I doubt] and if there are any opinions on why you think this is happening? Thank you for all answers, they're much appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2008): Hello,Well first of all it bothers me that only one person answered your question and the rest just went on and on about unprotected sex. Yes having unprotected sex is very unsafe, and you should take care of yourself, but that was not your question. To be honest to you I am having the same problem, maybe not the same way but in a way it is. I have had past sexual partners which I did not have a problem during sex, but my boyfriend now is different. I do not feel anything during sex, I am still trying to figure out what is wrong. My advice to you is to talk to him, maybe you both can find a solution to the problem. Remember its about 2 people not one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2008): first off, in my opinion, you're too young to be having sex. but i'm sure my opinion won't matter that much to you so my second word of advice is go to the doctor and get some condoms. STOP having unprotected sex! sexually transmitted diseases are very common and just because you're young does not mean that you are invincible to everything. pregnancy is not the only thing you should be worried about. a lot of things are uncurable and the last thing you would want is to get a virus or disease that might keep you from having kids in the future when you're ready.
So, get checked out and stop having sex. or at least use protection.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2008): Dear Poster
Thanks for the update; Please consult your doctor and keep us posted.
We are here to assist you and remember you are welcome anytime; you can also PM any of the uncles or aunts for advice.
My thoughts are with you; hope all will be okay for you.
Keep Smiling.
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reader, cookie_jarr_x3 +, writes (26 October 2008):
cookie_jarr_x3 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni thank all of your answers. but might i just add this one comment? 'emilysanswers', that was just a bit rude. i'm sure you must have some very strong feelings about underage unprotected sex, but you do not have the right to repeatedly call me 'stupid'. 'icelordess' and 'Smiles' explained exactly what you did, without insulting me. so i thank you guys for not going at the most extreme level of making me regret turning towards this advice site as 'emilysanswers' did.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2008): Dear Poster
Aunty "Emily" is so right; you need to consult a doctor; you really should not have unprotected sex; it is very dangerous; best you go and have tests done; pregnancy is not the only risk with unprotected sex; there are STD'S and then there is AIDS for which there is no cure; please do be more careful in future.
You are still very young and you have your entire life ahead of you; don't risk your health with unprotected sex;
No matter how scared or embarrassed you might be; you need to go to the doctor; they are use to dealing with these things and will be able to give you the correct treatment.
Lots of SMILES.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2008): Yes its normal because after I had broken my virginity with my guy....I though that afterwards it would be good...but we were having sex and I didn't feel anything...it just felt like something going in and out...but I realized that it was because I wasn't in the right mood..I was just having sex to have sex and there was no foreplay in the beginning he just went straight on in....there are many of things that could put you off during sex...so maybe you just weren't aroused enough that time.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (26 October 2008):
Perhaps you have some horrible disease. You have been stupid enough to have underage unprotected sex.
Did you think it was all magically going to be wonderful forever? Are you really that stupid?
Go and get checked out by a doctor and for everyone's sake get some protection or better still stop having sex.
Good Luck!! xx
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