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*babi22
writes:Ok so i have this friend that i think likes my boyfriend.she denies liking him but behind my back she texts him and stuff.she tells him how good he looks and flirts with him.my boyfriend says he does not like her either.but he talks to her anyway.i mean i dont mind them talking but the way she talks to him is something i dont like.i dont know how to deal with this anymore.at times i just dont want her talking to him at all.what should i do?
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reader, treehugger +, writes (20 March 2009):
Girls are horrible this way. My "friend" is currently after my boyfriend, texting and emailing all the time. He says he doesn't like her but he doesn't tell her to stop and even encourages it. Then he tells me I'm paranoid. I am about ready to drop both of them. A true friend would never do that to you. A true boyfriend would never encourage it or do it back. Leave these two to each other. They'll get bored when there is no thrill in sneaking around. They watch how fast he comes running back. In the meantime, find a boyfriend who isn't so insecure and needy and a girlfriend who isn't so desperate.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008): If your boyfriend is true, he will ignore her. If you want your relationship to work you both need to fight for each other. He should tell the girl to stop, not you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008): Tell her to F off. He's your bf & she really doesn't need to be flirting with him.
Also, tell your bf that you don't appreciate him flirting with other girls & if he's allowed, then you should be too. Go ahead & flirt with other guys & see how he takes it.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (26 October 2008):
Tell your friend that you know she has been talking to him and flirting with him and if she doesn't stop doing it then you don't want to be her friend any more.
Then try and set her up with someone of her own.
Good Luck!! xx
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