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writes:How do i get over my ex boyfriend.??I really want to get over my ex bf, but i cant, he broke up with me nearly 2 months ago now, he wants me bk but i have a new bf now and i dont want to take him bk. but i cant get over him, i love him loads, the last week i though i was over him i had no feelings for any one at all, but today i realized i was just ignoring them, i love him still, i love my new bf, but i no i dnt love him as much as my ex, my ex still likes me and wants me bk, but he was such a user and etc wen i was with him b4, and wen he dumped me i didnt want him bk, even tho i love him emensly, i cant take him bk for so many reasons but i also dont really want him to move on cos even tho i wont take him bk i no, tht as soon as he moves on i'll realize shud have given him another chance and that i have lost my chance with him. i cant explain how much my heart pounds for him, im nothing with out him, but i hve a new bf and i dont want to get back with my old bfhow can i get over him, i love him so much but he hurt me so many times i dont want him bk, any advice how to get over him its been 2 months now n my feelings havent changed
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008): If you have he has hurt you so many times why would you want to get back with him? Think about it. Of course it's going to take sometime to get over him, and you can't force it, it just has to happen in time. If this guy you are dating now is a good guy I would stick with him and focus on this relationship. Ex's are ex's for a reason. I had a ex before where I was sooooooooooooooooo in love with him but he hurt me so much and although I would have loved to get back with, I knew it wouldn't be right because of the hurt he caused and that just made him simply NOT THE ONE! trust me, you will get over him, it will just take time. Don't be fooled by your feelings for him, that does not mean he is your soulmate especially since you say he has hurt you. You are probably focusing on the good times with him which will make you think about him and want to get back together. Focus on the bad that he has put you through and ask yourself if you want to be with someone like that. Your still young sweetie you don't need to go back to a relationship like that. hope this helps =)
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