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How can I "talk dirty" to my boyfriend?

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Question - (26 October 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 October 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

How can I talk dirty to my boyfriend to turn him on more? Just to make our sex life better?

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A female reader, aunty_rach United Kingdom +, writes (27 October 2008):

i don't agree that 16-17 is too young for sex, i would not advice it as you need to be emotionally ready, but here in the UK 16 is legal.

as for the dirty talk the best thing to do is maybe tell him which parts of his body you love and why and then which parts of your body you like him to touch,kiss,etc and how it makes you feel. for instance if he is kissing you in a certain spot say something like "baby that feels so good, you're so sexy" or whatever floats his boat. Also i find guys love it when you do it in a "porn star" voice. makes them feel like they're in their own dirty movie, but without the cameras. just go with the flow you will find it easy.

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A female reader, JustChillin United States +, writes (26 October 2008):

JustChillin agony auntFirst off, you seem a little young to be having SEX!! But now that you've already tasted that fruit, I guess it will be hard for you to turn back now. =/

So, since you've put yourself in an adult situation by having sex, here is what I would suggest to those that want to spice up there sex life!

We all love to hear how we're doing in the "pleasing area" when we're having sex. So, you might want to whisper in a low sultry voice, as you are softly nibbling on his ear lobe, let him know how he puts you over the top!! Say..."oh baby that feels so good"..."I love when you do"(mention specifically what "IT" is that he does that sends you over the top). Then, when you do something to him, softly ask him, "Does that feel good for you"?

Some men like when their lady talks "dirty" to them...in other words...you might want to use some "dirty words"...like I love when you "F_ _ _" me hard!! ;-)

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