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I need help with love.

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Question - (26 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 October 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm bi and me and this girl are going out secretly. I hate having to hide my feelings. The thing is that she has a boyfriend I did but she told me she hated my past with him so I broke up with him. I don't know if she really loves me I feel that she does but I think she doesn't. Every time she's with her man she tries to make me jealous and I do the same when I'm with my ex gf.

I'm wondering if I should stay with her or leave her??

The things that I love is that when she with him she still comes and talks to me even if he gets pissed and when I'm with my ex, she gives her a look like I hate you and I love how any time when I'm sad all I do is call her and she's there for me to cheer me up to tell me everything is going to be ok. All the time I see her I get butterflies. Every time we are alone we just cuddle and talk, I look in her eyes and she tells me she loves me then it just makes me feel whole. She's my everything but I wonder if she feels that way too. What do I do or what should I say???

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A female reader, wawa United Kingdom +, writes (26 October 2008):

sweet heart, you need to confront her, ask her if she really loves you, and if she doea, why is she still with her man? you need to peice it all together, take her out for a meal, and ask her if she wants to be with you forever, or if your just her toy, it is obvious you wont be totally happy until you know, so ask, it can only unfold the truth, and the truth is what you need, just ask if she really loves you, and if she sees you 2 being together in a few years time, say how you feel, say how much she means to you, get it off your chest.

sarah.

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