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writes:I don't like being on top. I feel vulnerable and I'm very self concious. But my boyfriend always asks me to. I feel bad if I don't do it. Am I being selfish? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008): just switch it up, i think you're not being selfish at all, you shouldn't have to do all the work, that's usually the guys job anyway LOL.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (26 October 2008):
You are not being selfish but there are ways for you to compromise.
Would you feel better if you were on top but wearing a bra, or even a bra and vest or a nightie?
Our house is very cold so I have been known to stop and pull on one of my husband's jumpers when on top. Chattering teeth really isn't attractive when you are having sex haha.
If you just can't face it then you shouldn't have to but you should try and work out why you are having sex with a guy that you are too shy about letting see you.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2008): your not being selfish.
you souldn't feel pressured into doing anything that you dont want to do. instead why not try other postions that you dont have to be on top for.
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