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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey guys, just wanted some advice... I've been together with my bf for 5 months now but we got together pretty soon after he finished with his ex of 5 years... to be honest we were kinda going on while he was still with his ex but i wasnt aware of that fact, if i knew i wud have never got into it... but after i found out i was far too into it to break up...Anyways, the problem is his ex is still on the scene and its really annoying when we are togther, she rings him constantly and she just wont leave him alone... but the issue is he wont tell her hes got someone else as he says he doesnt wnna hurt her and still cares about her feelings... he said he doesnt wanna be cold but i dont see the big deal... and its really annoying me... i hate the fact that she still calls him and still has a big presence in his life... what do i do helpp!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2008): Dear Poster
You need to talk to him and explain to him how you feel; that it makes you uncomfortable and that it makes you feel insecure. Talk to him in a loving calm manner; He is with you now and he should respect your feelings and your wishes. If he does not; I suggest you be very careful and take stock of the relationship; you don't want to live with the ex as a shadow in your life do you?
Best wishes and keep us posted.
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