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writes:I just want to know what I can do to make my guy go crazy sexually. I don't feel like Im satisfying him well enough and would like to get more of a reaction out of him. All the things I do to him:I give him oral sex which I love doing, but the last time I got kinda faded before he came over and while going down on him I scathed my teeth across it! But I think Im pretty good at it because otherwise he enjoys it.I ride him like a horse and I know he likes it. He always says 'shiiiiittttt' like that. But I feel like something is missing Im not sure what it is. But I wanna do something to completely turn him out and make him go crazy. I just need suggestions.
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reader, hornmandon +, writes (2 November 2008):
I'm 18 years, human not old and very Catholic. I have been dating a nice guy who has not made any passes at me except to rub my legs, and occasionally my back side.
He does excite me,and I'd like to become intimit with him but I am a virgin. I like touching his penis and want to know if he will think a lot less of me of I give him oral sex? Also, if I did give him oral sex, should I let him come into my mouth and then I can spit it out into a handkerchief? I know that he will like it because he becomes very hard when I rub his penis.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (31 October 2008):
 OK, well I like all the ideas that others have proposed. And I recall girlfriends and one wife who frequently entertained me with what I'll call "surprise blow jobs." which included pouncing on me in the middle of the night, or while traveling or as soon as I would walk in the door at home. Those are extra fun, as are bjs in the shower (a personal favorite). "Uncle Phil's" suggestion about the cold wine technique reminds me of the crushed ice one gal used to hold in her mouth momentarily before going down. It gets your immediate attention. As for sexual positions, I would presume that you have tried a variety of those. There are only so many ways, albeit quite numerous - but what is lacking about the usual and popular ways to enjoy sex today? Even the Super Bowl is still basically a football game.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2008): My husband has his CDL and drives long distance,sometimes he gets tired and winy so when the sun goes down we cut off the cab light and I give him a blow job or hand job...i know you said you have the oral sex part down but maybe you should try doing it at different places...while he's on the phone with a guy friend,at his job,while he's watching the game or my fav. one to do to my hubby is while he's doing something he dislikes like washing the dishes!! ijust start to play with him and before you know....UUUgh is the sound he makes [he now loves washing dishes ]!! Hopefully this works n if all else fails....JUST ask him what would make him "GO CRAZY"!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2008): My bf loves it when I tie his hands and have sex with him. Light bondage can be fun. You could role play. Pretend to be something naughty for him. Wait for him to approach orgasm and ask him to cum all over you. Every guy I've ever been with has loved that. Just use your imagination.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2008): Give him a body massage or do a strip show.Tease him, get him all excited and aroused.
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reader, Dree23 +, writes (30 October 2008):
Dree23 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDouble M,
I don't necessarily need help with the blowjob part. Im wondering sexually if there is ANYTHING ELSE I can do besides oral and regular sex positions that would make him go crazy and by go crazy I mean.....like, make him estatic, shocked, surprised but make it feel good to him like something he'd never had.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2008): Have a shower with him, do him other places rather than the bedroom. Wait for him naked one day just dress up in a shirt and give him dinner, etc.
I don't know just use your imagination in order for him to be always motivated that I think he is. Guys don't need much to keep it going.A good thing would be asking him for once what he would like you to do to him.
Good Luck!
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (30 October 2008):
You seem to be doing all that a guy could possibly want, especially if you do oral all the way. A bit of teething occurs occasionally and is no problem if it doesn't draw too much blood. But based on what you say, I think that either your boyfriend may have other issues going on - or most likely, you are expecting some kind of overly dramatic reaction from a blow job. Yes, a great one is fantastic, but what do you mean by the term "go crazy?"
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2008): My son told me last week that he'd just had absolutely the best blow job of his life. Apparently she had a mouthful of chilled wine at the time. Never had it done to me, but he doesn't usually tell porkie pies. Worth a try? Do please let me know!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2008): Ask him what he wants. You're doing all this complicated stuff but ever thought of doing it all simply, so you can both focus on it being more than sex?
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