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Archived questions from: 19 March, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I still have feelings for Alex but I love Paul. I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

19 March 2008 (F) - Hey I'm soo confused!! I just started dating this guy named Paul. But before that I had a "friends with bens" relationship with my friend Alex. Problem: I didn't date Alex because his mom is racist and wouldn't let him date. So I kinda gave up...

I want him to chase me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

19 March 2008 (F) - "Men want to chase not be chased" So how do I get the acquaintance from class to chase me? What do you do in order to increase a guys interest? He is sweet, quiet, and thoughtful man in one of my classes and I feel strongly attracted to him but I ...

It's slowly becoming apparent that the more into someone you are, the less likely they are to be into you. Can someone please explain?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6096 days ago

19 March 2008 (F) - It's slowly becoming apparent that the more into someone you are, the less likely they are to be into you. Can someone please explain?...

I'm So confused, I want to know the truth, is he STRAIGHT or BI

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6096 days ago

19 March 2008 (M) - hello sorry this is pure long but I could describe what happened in a short version,but anyway i'm a 16 year old gay guy, I had some friends staying at mines just last friday, so basically what happened was, me and this guy were really drinking ...

She has lost confidence in our relationship, is numb and wants to split "for now".

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6096 days ago

19 March 2008 (M) - My g/f of 18 months now says she has lost confidence in or relationship and says she is numb and doesn't know what she wants and feels. We have gone through a bad patch arguing. We are mid 30's I backed off a bit and didn't hassle for a mon...

What I'm really looking for is another person's point of view, a bit of a guiding light.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

19 March 2008 (M) - Ok... I am 17 and have been in a relationship with a girl for about 15 months now and I'm not sure that we suit each other any more. I am more involved in things such as classical music, art work and current events these days and she is still ...

My girlfriend broke up with me after 4 years because she needs to make sure we were meant to be.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

19 March 2008 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me about a month and a half ago and for the first three weeks we didn't talk or get together because she said she wanted space to see if we were meant to be and find out what she wanted. After the three weeks she started ...

I can't bear to think of him looking at porn when I am a willing bed partner, it makes me feel so angry and rejected and worthless any ideas what to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

19 March 2008 (F) - Hi I can relate to everything some of you say I met my partner 8 years ago at first although not frequent, sex was really good then four years ago he announced that he no longer wanted sex with me or any other woman I was a bit shocked but took ...

I'm pregnant and he's not there for me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

19 March 2008 (F) - I like this boy, his name is Chris and we've been going out a lot of times since we met but we kept on breaking up over and over again. Then on 3/13/08 we start going out and we were having sex and now I'm pregnant and he's not there. What should ...

It really turns my boyfriend on to think of me having sex with other men - he even wants me to tape it!!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

19 March 2008 (F) - Well I really need some advice I've been dating this guy for 2 years. I fell in love with him everything amazing he was my first the sex amazing the bond pretty much everything I ever wanted but all of a sudden we started opening up and it really ...

He is still "in love" with me so why does he have a new girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

19 March 2008 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I of almost 2 years had a seemingly great relationship. A few problems that would occur would mainly be because of me. I always pushed him away whenever he got too close. I was at times selfish. He's the most amazing boyfriend ...

Hurt, worried, confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

19 March 2008 (F) - I am 19 and my boyfriend is 20. We have been together for a month and a half. Every time we try to get together something happens in his family. Like one time we were going to celebrate winning our basketball games by getting shrimp because it's our ...

I've left 10 texts to my boyfriend with no response, does he still care?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

19 March 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating for two months. now, we are on spring break and he hasn't text me back. i have left at least ten plus messages. do you think that hes doesn't care about me anymore or that our relationship is over? ...

He says he loves me but the only thing we do together is go to the movies with his friends...Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

19 March 2008 (F) - me and my bf have been dating for 6 months and 8 days. i really do love he says he loves me too but im not sure if he really does because he always says he wants to hang out with me but then he always blows me off to go do something else. then he ...

I like this boy... but I don't want anyone to get hurt! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6089 days ago

19 March 2008 (F) - I like this boy. The only trouble is, he has a girlfriend. Plus, his girlfriends is one of my good friends. She was talking to me just only last week, saying she has stronger feelings for someone else and might break up with him soon. I felt kin...

Are you born with STD's? My boyfriend and I just started having unprotected sex...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6096 days ago

19 March 2008 (?) - Are you born with STDs, or do you have to catch them to have one? It's just, me and my boyfriend are each other's firsts, and we've only been with each other. So I'm just checking, you can't be born with them can you? By the way, we don't have un...

My long distance boyfriend wants me to go naked in front of my webcam..I feel awkward and like I'm doing something wrong!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

19 March 2008 (F) - I am from a conservative family. yet i have opened up to my bf and have had sex with him many times. it is a long distance relationship. now i got a webcam and he wants me to go naked in front of it. although i trust him i feel awkward and i told ...

He has genital warts! Should I be suspicious? He said it was from the girl before me....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

19 March 2008 (F) - Hi Im absolutely devasted im 30 years of age and had been your typical "Briget Jones" for three years, then a year and a half ago I met my perfect boyfriend a true gentleman not like the usual bad boys I would date.A very shy gentle man. I really r...

I found something on his computer to another girl! I am really hurting...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

19 March 2008 (F) - i really dont know what to do....me n my bf of nearly a year have split up because i found something on his computer that he had said to another girl but i have betrayed his stuff as it was the 3rd time i went through his private things after him ...

Vampirism!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

19 March 2008 (F) - My fiance and I are into a little bit of the old vampirism. Biting and that's about it. Last night however, we did something for the first time and I'm unsure of how to feel about it. He offered me his arm and told me to bite and draw blood. T...

Is it possible for us to give each other a STD while having unprotected sex even though we both have gotten tested and they came back clean??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

19 March 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend just got tested for HIV and any STD's and we both came out clean. We got tested because she is very very paranoid about getting a STD. My question is: is it possible for us to give each other a STD while having unprotect...

I have recently found out that my boyfriend has been texting my friend's sister and met up with her once during the day for lunch.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

19 March 2008 (F) - I have recently found out that my boyfriend has been texting my friend's sister and met up with her once during the day for lunch. When I confronted him he said it is harmless and he thinks she is good fun and was only trying to make a friend from ...

Is my boyfriend going off me? He very rarely kisses or hugs me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6075 days ago

19 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend very rarely kisses or hugs me. Well I only get them if I go up to him and give him them. We hardly ever have sex when we first met, we used to have a great sex life now we hardly have any sex. It seems to me that he just isn't botherd ...

Miscarried and left alone...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

19 March 2008 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for a little over a year now. We had an amazing relationship. I got pregnant and had a miscarriage about 4 weeks ago. My boyfriend has been so busy with work that he has barely noticed. He has stopped calling me as ...

How can I get over my worries about blow jobs?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

19 March 2008 (F) - I really kinda need help with this now. When I was kinda young, I had a few problems with a relative, which involved him doing a few.... not so nice things to me at the time. In the start of my teens, I privately went and saw a counsellor, but she ...

She keeps snapping at me all the time... Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

19 March 2008 (M) - Recently got engaged but we argue a lot, she snaps at me. It makes me unhappy and I can't even tell her that I am unhappy. I don't know what to do!...

How are you supposed to keep a strong connection when you only see someone twice a week and no calls in between?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

19 March 2008 (F) - Me and my guy have been seeing each other for 6 weeks now and we are great together but I have one complaint! He doesnt call me much at all I have noticed the last couple of weeks. He will call when I am supposed to come over and maybe a couple ...

I keep on faking orgasms but I love my new partner, please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

19 March 2008 (F) - I love my new partner. But I don't always have an orgasm with him so I fake it so as to please him. I've been doing for a while and find it tired faking it. What can I do? Please advise....

No lectures please, I'm staying with him no matter what, I just need to know what to do with my bf who's smoking weed...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

19 March 2008 (F) - I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 15. Okay so here's the stich My boyfriend has lately started on weed again and it has changed him big time, its got to a point were he doesnt care what i say or what i do anymore... Hes yelling at me like everyday now,...

How can I show that I am there for her, and that I truly care, without being overwhelming?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

19 March 2008 (M) - I am a 20 yr old guy, and my girlfriend is 17. I have been dating my girlfriend for 7 months, and things seem to be stuck in a rut. This girl is my first real girlfriend, and we were getting on so well up until about a month ago. Ever since then, ...

My gf doesn't think its going to workout because we aren't seeing each other. I need some advice please

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

19 March 2008 (M) - Hi i am recently going out with a girl who is actually older than me, we have been going out for about 2-3 months now and just today she said she wasnt sure whether it was going to work because we arent seeing each other a lot and thats because of ...

I consider myself average in all aspects, is it a hindrance?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

19 March 2008 (F) - Hello there, i would like to know readers' honest opinions as to why i just can't get a boyfriend. People i know tell me I'm attractive, and i do get hit on by random guys, but i would like to know why i can't find someone who is genuinely ...

Why does he get so frustrated and yell at me if he says he loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

19 March 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been togther for 6 months now. he says he loves me and i don't do anything wrong, but he gets easily frustrated and is a bit controling. if i want to have a beer he gets irritated saying i'm not with him so why do i need a ...

When to have sex with a new partner? Do you wait until marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6096 days ago

19 March 2008 (F) - Hi. I know it depends on a lot of factors, but can someone give some sort of a general timeline on the appropriate time to wait before having sex with a new partner? I was in a long term relationship for several years all of which I thought we ...

How do I tell him how "insensitive" he is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

19 March 2008 (F) - Sometimes my boyfriend can be, in my opinion, very insensitive about my feelings. When i try to organize something fun and he sees a negative side about the idea he will voice his opinion without giving thought that i may have put alot of effort ...

My ex has always cheated and now I like his best friend! Should I go for it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

19 March 2008 (F) - well okay so i was with this guy we were together 4 years and we have a lil girl together but the whole time we were together he cheated on me this last time it was with my sister yes my sister but thats a whole nother subject ok so i have this ...

She thinks my parents are evil! Do I deserve someone better?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

19 March 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I recently broke off our engagement because my parents and her could not get along. Both my parents and my now ex-girlfriend are strong headed and would not try to find a common ground. She felt my parents were evil and every time ...

My boyfriend is in the army, can our love last long distance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

19 March 2008 (F) - Ive been dating a guy in the army for a couple of months, we've got on great but hes being posted to germany, i thought we could carry on but hes said it wouldnt work because of the distance and the fact we wouldnt see each other, ive said id be ...

I'm in love with my best friend's wife!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

19 March 2008 (M) - I am in need of advice, constructive critisim, and feedback. Please do not tell me how terrible of a person I am. I already know this. I have beat myself up emotionally for years now. I can't get away from these feelings, so here is my story. ...

I was wondering if I should try to get a date before I leave and try to leave things on a good note.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

19 March 2008 (M) - So I fell pretty hard for a girl in one of my college courses. I finally got the nerve to ask her for her number and we went for lunch befor our final exam. She told me she had a great time and I suggested we go on a real date sometime and she...

How can I "talk dirty" to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

19 March 2008 (F) - Okay, I have a slight problem. My boyfriend loves, loves, loves to talk dirt. Like across MSN and through texts and in person. I cannot talk dirty to save my life. I have all these things I could say but I can't let them out. And it makes me feel ...

What do lads think about girls/girlfriend watching porn, a lot???

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

19 March 2008 (F) - What do lads think about girls/girlfriend watching porn, a lot!? I just want to know if ye have a problem with girls watching porn. Is it a turn off? I would really appreciate your comments!!!...

How do I get my mum to stop acting like my man, who has been with me for 8 months, and loves me a lot, is not like the men that she has been with?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

19 March 2008 (F) - Hi, I asked a question on here earlier about my bf not seeing me for a week, and his car needing to be fixed. Well, now I have another problem. I've had this problem for some time now. How can I get my mom to stop acting like he ain't shit, just bec...