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writes:What do lads think about girls/girlfriend watching porn, a lot!?I just want to know if ye have a problem with girls watching porn. Is it a turn off? I would really appreciate your comments!!!
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reader, shadowre +, writes (8 April 2008):
shadowre is verified as being by the original poster of the question alrighty, ye all make sense. thanx very much :)
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reader, shadowre +, writes (31 March 2008):
shadowre is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAwesome kool! thanx all
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reader, gabba's say  +, writes (22 March 2008):
 I am a Porn addict myself. My ex girlfriend hated me wayching it but I have since watched it with females and it is great. It is an extra turn on and results in better sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2008): Hi Hunny
No I dont think you are a lesbian, I think you just like sex its pretty much new to you so you are going mad at this moment in time, Mind you it doesnt get any less with age but I wouldnt like to be thought of a porn actress Im much happier with my fella n me, Im more into my fella than into the porn..Im not shy of the occational porn movie but its much more fun having the real thing....Id get bored watching it everyday Id much rather it be me and my man..As it can get out of control and its not real, Its fun to experiment, At 16 I dont remember being this experimental though! everyone here has valid points and I agree with everyones points as everyone is different and has different thoughts about this subject, Just be happy love, your no different to most go with the flow and make sure you have the right protection and are covered in the contraception area thats real important TAKE CARE WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, shadowre +, writes (20 March 2008):
shadowre is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni hope he doesnt think of me as a porn actress now! i could understand why!! i do tend to talk about sex alot!! honestly i should be a boy! i think about sex everyday. and i watch porn everyday!! i do like the whole amateur porn thing, i mostly watch lesbian porn! oh no, am i lesbian?
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reader, shadowre +, writes (20 March 2008):
shadowre is verified as being by the original poster of the questionye i totally know what you mean. i was actually thinking if taught of me as a porn actress! but he didnt know much about me before we got together, it was only after we got together he i told him, i love porn and all that. i think iam a bit to open when it comes to sex, maybe that is why he asked!! i think about sex all the time and i aint joking! i really should be a boy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): Because it's exciting for a guy to see his girlfriend or wife getting herself excited and hopefully having an orgasm. There are porn movies with a woman pleasing herself and guys watch those movies. It would be even better if it was his partner who is doing it than some actress. Besides, he would be right by the action instead of watching it on a TV or computer screen. Also, the fact that she is watching porn while she does it makes it even more exciting.
Now let me say that I have never watched a woman do this live. When my wife and I watch porn together, I am the one fondling her and getting her excited while I am also getting excited, as she is doing the same to me. I would like her to do what you say, but she would rather have me doing the foreplay than her doing it to herself. I have suggested that to her in the past, but she is not interested. It's not because she is shy. It's just because she would rather that I do it to her.
Perhaps the guy wants to think of you as one of the porn actresses. If this is the case, then I think this could be a problem. Porn actresses and real women are very different. The porn actresses don't even act like that with their real boyfriends or husbands. Most of them make love the same as most people. If a guy wants to do that so that he can think of you as a porn actress then he does not have a realistic view of sex. I'm not saying this is the case. I'm just wondering if this could be true.
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reader, shadowre +, writes (19 March 2008):
shadowre is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBut why do would some males want to watch there girlfriend masterbating or watching porn!! I don't get understand it!!?!!
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reader, MBHP +, writes (19 March 2008):
Well i personally watch porn when i feel the need and when i mention it to my boyfriend he can seem a bit put out, maybe a little bit hurt that he might not be enough for me but deep down i think guys prefer girls who know what they like and girls who pretend they've never masturbated just seem immature. If you act like theirs nothing wrong with it, im sure they'll see it the same way, they might even feel reassured that it's ok for them to do the same. So long you reassure them it's only a bit of fun, fantasy. Hope that helped just a tiny but... :) x
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): Oops, sorry. I see where that could be interpreted both ways.
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reader, shadowre +, writes (19 March 2008):
shadowre is verified as being by the original poster of the questionopps, iam terrible at explaining. I meant to say that my boyfriend asked could he watch me masterbate!! opps anyway ye, not sure tho!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): I don't quiet understand about the masturbating thing either. I would be all over you in that situation if I was your boyfriend and getting turned on watching you watch porn. I wouldn't want to waste it.
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reader, shadowre +, writes (19 March 2008):
shadowre is verified as being by the original poster of the questiontotally amatuer is my fav! and to what stroller said, He even said it to me can he watch me watch porn and masterbate!!! not quite sure about the masterbating thing tho!
Thanx all for da advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): My wife and I both watch porn. We watch it together and I watch it alone. She does not watch it alone, but I wish that she would, as I find it a turn-on if she would. Neither one of us find it offensive and normally like the amateur porn the best, as it is more realistic and less made up and outrageous. More like what we do.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (19 March 2008):
 For me it would be a turn off. Everyone is different, but personally i find porn degrading to women.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): A little of what yu fancy is good if you are both happy with it. Like any excess in life too much is a worry because people become disconnected from reality and unable to invest in real relationships. Or real life sex starts not being sufficient or boring. A real shag should never come second place to a wank over porn. How boring life would be if people spent all their time connecting with a screan. Already lots of people prefer to play computer games than do sport. Then the nation starts to get fat! Sorry, getting a bit off the question but the general theory is that if it is easy to get gratification people become lazy in other areas. So just watch out for that.Looking at porn is as fine for a girl as a boy.
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reader, Stroller +, writes (19 March 2008):
 It's a turn on!
Let him watch you watching porn!
Everyone's a winner!!
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (19 March 2008):
 Depends on who you are with. Is it a judgmental religious man, or one who is into porn himself?
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