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Archived questions from: March, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

I love being with him but not with the kids anymore? How can I make him see how his really bad parenting is affecting everyone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - My bf and I have been together 3 years - he has two daughters who are 10 and 12 - I have kids that are a bit older - His girls are just totally obnoxious! He has asked me to help all along with them and they love me and I have tried to teach them ...

I know I just asked for help the other day but now I have a worse problem. My girlfriend's ex fiancee says he's dying.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - I know I just asked for help the other day but now I have a worse problem. My girlfriend's ex fiancee says he's dying. He just left her one day and never spoke to her until yesterday. She never knew why he left her but now she knows it was because ...

If I break up with my girlfriend I'm afraid I will have no one.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I have a girlfriend that I love. We have our good and bad times. We go to school and do everything together but now I think I should see other people because I'm not sure if she makes me happy as much as I make her happy. If I break up with he...

Am I really in love with someone else, or am I just looking for someone to fill the void within my present realtionship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6085 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I am in love with two great men. I am amazed to see the amount of people who are in a similar situation. I feel a little silly posting my issue like some personal ad but I really have no where else to turn. I have been in a relationship with my ...

My fiance has been texting his ex girlfriend. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - My fiance has been texting his ex girlfriend. Questioning her why she left him for another guy? We have been engaged for about a month now and I am expecting his baby in May. Should I stay with him or leave before he hurts me more?...

I hate his ex and myself.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Here it goes. My SO and I have been together for just over a year now. We get along great except for a few details. He never tells me that I'm beautiful, but he has told me about how beautiful his ex-wife is and about how much of a freak she was and ...

Opinions on my boyfriend and I's age difference?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I'm 18 and he's 27. When we are together, age is not an issue. We have a heck of a lot in common, and we are each very dedicated to making our relationship work. I will be telling my Mum about us soon, but before I do, I'd really apprecia...

He texts her and says it's to make me mad. Do you think this is cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend for over 4 years have been texting a female from our kid's daycare. I know her she was one of my kid's teachers. A while ago I read his text message to her saying I want to be your man and I wish that baby inside was mines because ...

He wants to marry me but I want to wait... Opinions please, what would YOU do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend just got back together because I was missing him, we been together for two years. I know he loves me but when he drinks (which is like once a month) he don't know how to handle his self so I have to make him leave my house ...

Is she just scared to leave her boyfriend because they live together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - I have really liked this girl since she started a year ago but problem is she has a boyfriend of 5 years! Everyone knows that she is not happy and recently at a work function we somehow got together, this was great and she said that she felt the ...

If I didn't have this scar, I'd be a different person! What can I do about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I have a very big problem. I have a boyfriend who loves me infact more than I love him. We've been together a long time infact I'm presently living with him but the problem is that I have a scar on my left leg. Hot water poured on me when I was ...

Should I ask my boyfriend of 4 months to marry me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I really love my boyfriend so much, we've been together for 4 months and i want to marry him, i dont know what to do about it, shall i ask him to marry me or shall i wait for him to ask me, or has it not been long enough for me to ask him yet?...

I don't know how to trust him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6085 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for nearly 6 months now, we're best mates and in love and can't imagine life without each other. However I can't trust him, I'm suspicious he might go off with someone else all the time so I read his messages...

Is age REALLY a problem???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - My girlfriend is 15 and I'm 23, is this perfectly okay (although we have said no 2 sex until she is old enough) we are both very much in love she means the world to me. ...

Is he hiding something from me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Hello all... I will try to keep this short... :) I have been seeing this man from NZ for over a year now, and things have been great, we spent 9 days together and everything was amazing.. Anyways I recently got an invitation to a website calle...

Sex and Love Do Mix?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Please tell me. How many of you men out there think it is OK for F1 boss Max Mosley to have sex with five prostitutes whilst pretending to be a Nazi? I am getting seriously depressed. So many comments from men about it in the press have been ...

How can I flirt, I know about smiling but nothing else.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - How can I flirt, I know about smiling but nothing else. I am in a wheelchair so I can't stand up and lie on guys or sit on their knee. I am very shy so this can help a guy know I like them, cause I am too shy 2 say it. How else can I flirt?...

When he says he loves me I just think he wants sex with me. I just don't believe in love anymore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I've married my husband for 22 years and he treats me like dirt in the recent years and says he never loved me. I was hurt then divorced him. I met this man 18 years my senior who treats me very nice and always says he loves me. I can't believe ...

Over the past few months I've been feeling as if there's nothing there anymore. As if we've just settled into a routine.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6085 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I'm in a relationship that's just hit the 3 year mark, even though I'm only 17. We also live together with my dad and older brother. However over the past few months I've been feeling as if there's nothing there anymore. As if we've just settled ...

Does he love me or just not good with expressing his feeling...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid My name is Joy11 and I'm 26 years old and I've been with my boyfriend for 8 years. He seldom tells me he loves me and I'm currently expecting his child and we're both very happy. Does he love me or just not good with expressing his f...

Do you think I am right in saying that I refuse to leave his house just because of his daughter having to entertain her aunt and uncle at my boyfriend's house?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend's sister and husband are coming into town on the way back home. They want to see my boyfriend's daughter's new twins recently born. She lives in a very small cluttered house and she wants to entertain them at my boyfriend's home. I ...

Opinions wanted on dating... Do you let him pay or go dutch?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Opinions wanted on dating. If you meet someone and they want to go out evenings for instance, do you let them pay, do you go dutch and take it in turns to buy the drinks, do you go halves on the dinner? If you have a night in and they want a take a...

How to be able to keep the conversations interesting so that the other person remains with a good impression?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - i need some advice on topics to talk about with someone special?to keep the conversation alive and keep the other person interested and to leave a impression that would make the other person coming back for more..please help...

I offered him oral on our third date, after that he did not utter a word to me! Your opinions about his change in behaviour?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Hi...I've met a guy..we've been out three times... I gave him oral(my first)...and after he came he was all weird. he didn't say a word to me. He just took me home without kissing me godbye. This happened three days ago and I haven't heard from him ...

In love with 2 girls, one is committed and the other has a child, who do I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - i'm in a situation!i'm inlove with two girls and i don't know what to do.the one girl is in a relationship with someone but she tells me she loves me and i must be patient.the other girl is single!she has a child but that doesn't bother me.she also ...

I met an older man after my divorce, one year later the excitement has gone though and I'd rather be alone. Why is this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I've been living a separate life with my husband for 4 years. We've got two flats and we only see each other mostly at weekends. In the end I was fed up that he was refusing to live with me so I divorced him. I am craving for love and company. ...

How can I avoid being so eager towards him, so ready to "fall in love" and experience all that goes with it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Hey aunts, I've got guy troubles again. It's nothing too serious, but I find I'm getting a little down about it. I've been sort of seeing this guy for about 2 months now. We go places together, hang out, and sometimes make out. Nothing is o...

How can I get over this bad feeling and enjoy the good moments with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - The man i am dating works a lot of hours and he usually has little free time. Sometimes when he calls me i am stressed and i talk to him with a little indiference. Although i don't want this and i try to be warm, i think that it influences me that...

She keeps cheating on me, how can ever trust her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - Dear Community, I need advice. I have been dating my g/f for 9 months now. Through out the relationship a lot has happened. I am no longer able to conduct my thoughts in a proper manner. I constantly think she is seeing someone now. It all beg...

Am I in her league, or just stuck in the "friend zone"...and how can I get this girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - Hi there, my question is about this girl who is absoluteley amazing in my mind, and I don't know if I'm in her league, or if I'm stuck in the "friend zone". I don't know if I'm in her league because she is beautiful, smart and funny, I think I migh...

Is she using me as a rebound - in case her relationship with her current boyfriend doesn't work out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - Hello, I am an 18 year old male who was asked to a prom by a girl who does not go to my school. There was a period where we were quite interested in each other and talked often. However she stopped speaking with me and ignored my phone calls when...

My ex is blowing hot and cold. I'm well confused!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Hi guys, some male behaviour to decode here! My ex fiance and I cohabited for 2 years until we split, we fell out badly and didn't speak. We are now reconciled after 4 years of N/C. He did get in contact two years ago but it was brief, stra...

My boyfriend is a work-a-holic, and I'm missing his attention!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship for almost three years. The first year and a half was great. The last year and a half has been some what of a struggle. My boyfriend is a work-a-holic. I miss him tremendously and miss the way that we used to be. I am...

I'm young and in love, and want it all!! Is that wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

31 March 2008 (?) - I'm young and in love! It's wonderful, and I KNOW I love him .... But I've had realtionships in the past where boys have hurt me (not pysically but emotionally). He says "I love you" everyday, and he always makes me feel special and loved. He's real...

I'm dating a girl that is a tom boy!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - Dating a girl that is a tom boy. We have so much in common we seem like twins and soul mates. Everything is perfect but i just cant stay sexually attracted to her. She never wants to put on make-up or fix her hair or even dress like a girl. I trie...

He has a son to someone else and I don't know if I can handle it...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 years and at the beginning we didn't really take the relationship seriously, I cheated on him and so did he on me. Now we want to be committed and really do love one another.. but there is only one problem, he ...

Birthday ideas for my boyfriend please.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6076 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend's fifteenth birthday is coming up (it's in a little over a month), and I am absolutely CLUELESS as to what to give him. I want it to be something special, but at the same time, not too totally over-the-top, as...

I'm nervous to be seen naked by my boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I really want to have sex with my boyfriend but I am kinda nervous being naked around him! I've tried to like get over it but it just wont go away! I really like my boyfriend and he would never force me to do anything I didnt like! I am dying to ...

I have a terrible issue with her past as she has slept with around 30 guys to my 6 women.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - First of all I am in a long distance relationship with a girl (33) who I have been seeing for the past year. She moved back to another European country 6 months ago. We fell very much in love, but like many guys I have a terrible issue with her...

If you have a boyfriend and you kiss a guy that is one of your ex boyfriends and you kissed only once, is that cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - If you have a boyfriend and you kiss a guy that is one of your ex boyfriends and you kissed only once, is that considered cheating?...

I'm scared to have a boyfriend because I think I'm a bad kisser.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6086 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Hey guys! I'm scared to have a boyfriend because I think I'm a bad kisser. Is there any way I can kinda teach myself how to do it? And I take it when you're in a relationship it doesn't matter, but I don't want to me embarrassed. Any help would b...

I told her I can't stop thinking bout her... She said she feels the same but is scared coz of past relationships.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - I told my crush I still like her after our first date on which we kissed. I told her I can't stop thinking bout her and going insane. She said she feels the same but is scared coz of past relationships. She knows me I'm the kind of guy who would ...

MY boyfriend wishes for me to give him oral.... I'm a virgin and I don't know how to do it...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

31 March 2008 (?) - MY boyfriend wants me to give him oral.... I'm a virgin and I don't know how to do it.... I'm kinda nervous about it... do I swallow or spit..? What exactly do I do? Can you get STD's? Do you use a condom? I don't know. Please help if you can ! ...

I love him so much. I'm always craving sex form him.... is that normal....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

31 March 2008 (?) - I have a SEXY sexy sexy boyfriend. I love him so much. I'm always craving sex form him.... is that normal.... like he'll send me a text saying "Mmm baby I want you" and I automatically get horny .Is that normal to get that way over nothing ? I'm ...

I need ways to tell my boyfriend I love him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

31 March 2008 (?) - I need ways to tell my boyfriend I love him. Telling him I LOVE YOU isn't good enough! I want other ways to tell him... either in person... text(preferable) or on the phone. IF you can help me then please do . thanks in advance !!! :) ...

I understand that he wants his space but I think he might be cheating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I am not sure whether I have a problem or it is my boyfriend. I will tell you both sides of the story:- After the honeymoon period of the few relationships that I have had wears off, they have failed. None of them have lasted more than 10 mon...

He's smoking pot to cope with his depression, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6086 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - So my boyfriend quit smoking pot for me for a year, but now, due to feeling depressed, he's started again. He says he doesn't see anything wrong with being high all the time. He says he quit because of his love for me, but now he thinks we ...

19, dating a 25 year old. Will it work? What will my parents say?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

30 March 2008 (M) - hi iam 19 and going on a date with a woman who i think is gorgeous but she got 4 kids different ages young; oldest is 7 and she's 25 do u think it might work out and also i am worried what my folks might say aswell. just want to know what ur ...

He masturbates in his sleep. Why does he do this?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

30 March 2008 (?) - This is a random question! =P I love my boyfriend very much. We have an amazing sex life as well, and we've both said how it gets better and better everytime but he masturbates in his sleep! first of all i found it quite offensive, becau...

My ex just proposed to me but I've started seeing someone else...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - I was with a guy for almost 3 years and we were really happy. However 6 months ago things started going downhill and I found that the little things he does annoys me, such as his snoring and the fact that he burns toast.(silly I know) 3 months ago ...