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writes:Okay, I have a slight problem. My boyfriend loves, loves, loves to talk dirt. Like across MSN and through texts and in person. I cannot talk dirty to save my life. I have all these things I could say but I can't let them out. And it makes me feel awful because it's not a lot to ask and he understands and doesn't want to make me uncomfortable but I want to make him happy by doing this. I just need some tips, any advice at all really about talking dirty - more specifically over msn and through texts. Ways to make myself feel less self-conscious about it. Anything at all would be helpful Thanks for anyone who contributes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008): dont use stuff that seems like you are trying to hard. kind of use stuff like..
thinking of you makes me start to think dirty =)
i want you to stick something where my mouth is.
fill me with fun =)
dont use this
"I can't stop thinking about you, you dick stretches my pussy so much when you fuck me"
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): U could start by talking about sucking him off n 'playin' with him - lads seem to like that! in return he could talk about 'lickin' u. then discuss ur sexual fantasies n how u can imagine doin them with each other. if ur not confident startin the dirty talk, get him to start n u just reply to it. once u start, the rest comes easy :-) x
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reader, Stroller +, writes (19 March 2008):
 Ok,
First - don't do anything you're uncomfortable with. If you don't wanna talk dirty, or it doesn't turn you on, then don't do it just because you think it'll help you "keep him", or something like that.
Having said that "I have all these things I could say but I can't let them out", it does sound like you've got some kinks and some fantasies, and that you would kinda like to tell him how you love the taste of his disk in your mouth, so my suggestion to that is just start talking dirty to the mirror.
Start talking dirty as you're walking to work or to school (when there's no one else around, of course!), and talk dirty when you're driving in your car. Talk dirty last thing as you go to sleep at night and when you're otherwise, ahem, alone in bed. Before you know it, talking dirty will become second-nature and you'll be making your fellow proud with all your slut-talk.
Good luck!
Start talking
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (19 March 2008):
 Hi there,
I think I can help. I love writing dirty texts and messages to my girl, but she would always struggle writing back to me. So I always told her to keep it simple.
If you struggle to express yourself through modesty or worry over appearing silly, just learn to lose these inhibitions. You are doing it to a person you love and who you already share the most pure form of intimacy - so dont hold back.
But keep it simple. Keep in mind that we men love the corny stuff which you would normally think rather silly, but we men love flattery ( who doesnt!). Here are some ideas to start with:
"baby, I am sitting here thinking about what you did to me last night its making my pussy wet"
"honey, your dick filled me up last night, I can't walk properly, I need more, will you fuck me tonight If I'm good?"
" I can't stop thinking about you, you dick stretches my pussy so much when you fuck me"
" I think your dick is huge, you have ruined me for life, I will never be satisfied with another man"
" I am thinking how wet you will make me when we fuck later on tonight"
and on and on... be corny , talk about how his dick drives you crazy, this is what guys want to hear.
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reader, gabba's say +, writes (19 March 2008):
 Just do it, You will soon pick it up. Before long you may be blowing HIS mind with your filth. I never done it until a recent female friend was bang into sending them. I started sending rather basic unintersting ones, Defore long I was sending very descriptive 6 page texts. It is just a bit sexy fun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): you need to have the fantasy in your head before you can put it out there so think about some things you would like to do with him and where you want to do it then put it into a text.. you will get there im sure i was a little scared to do it at first i was afraid he would laugh at me but usually what can make us horny can make them feel the same or just knowing that we are horny makes them horny hope ive been of some help good luck and just relax
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