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writes:Ive been dating a guy in the army for a couple of months, we've got on great but hes being posted to germany, i thought we could carry on but hes said it wouldnt work because of the distance and the fact we wouldnt see each other, ive said id be fine with that, but he said it would be too hard, i said to him to call it off he says he likes me a lot and still wants contact? why would he still want contact should i forget him and break all contact off or still contact him? help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): thanks for your advice askoldersister, do you think i should still keep in touch or is it easier to break all ties? Im usless with relationships, i never have them so im lost as to what to do, also should i see him again before he goes.
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reader, tallandsilentaintallthat  +, writes (19 March 2008):
I'm just guessing but maybe he is afraid not being able to find someone like you again? That sentiment will most likely fade with time. In whatever case: if you can keep a normal friendship that is great but it may be difficult to do so after a break up. Breaking it off would indeed be the least complicated thing to do. I think it would be good to talk with him a little bit more to understand what his motive for continued contact would be, for solace's sake. I hope this helps
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