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writes:me and my bf have been dating for 6 months and 8 days. i really do love he says he loves me too but im not sure if he really does because he always says he wants to hang out with me but then he always blows me off to go do something else. then he wont call and tell me what happened he just says he had stuff to do. the only thing we do together is go to the movies on fridays but thats not really together because his friends are always there. the only thing we do alone is talk on the phone. every 2 or 3 weeks we will hang out for like 2 hours maybe. i know i wanna break up with him but i love him so much an i dont know what to do. somebody please give me advice Reply to this Question
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (19 March 2008):
 He sounds a little immature. Maybe you're his first girlfriend and he hasn't figured out what to do with you yet. Why not take the lead and suggest a few outings together in between the times he asks you out. You could go see a play, or go miniature golfing, bowling a number of things that would give you more time together, minus his friends.
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reader, Gena Bullock +, writes (19 March 2008):
 Not alot to go on; however, whats the thing about sex??? Any? Maybe he's distracted by someone else? You two either need to talk or move on.
Gena Bullock
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reader, hanz1993  +, writes (19 March 2008):
 hiya hun,
well it sounds like he isn't treating you right. If some one says the love you, it means nothing if they don't do anything that shows that there feelings for you are genuine.
Ok all I can really suggest is when you next talk to him on the phone tell him how you feel. Cus maybe he doesn't no that how he's treating you is making you feel?
take care
xxx
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