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writes:hello sorry this is pure long but I could describe what happened in a short version,but anyway i'm a 16 year old gay guy, I had some friends staying at mines just last friday, so basically what happened was, me and this guy were really drinking quite heavily and through the night he and me ended up carrying on and kissing(like little pecks ever now and then on the lips), well anyway, through the night me and him done wierd things that you'd thin straight guys wouldn't, he kept kissing u-teen times, he groped me, I Slapped his ass while he was standing in my wee sisters room talk to her(she's 15), he says nothing, he just stayed quite, then we went out, btw me and him had no trousers on, we went out side for a Cig, came back in, he lay on the hall floor and ended up having a w**k, a says to him, "wait and I'll do that for ya", he says something like "aye, go for it" or something like that, I cant remember 100%, but anyways, he let go of his "thing", like sayin to im self "well you goin to do anything" although he didnt say anything but definetly seemed that way.On the saturday morning he was sick and a had to look after him, I felt as if I had to now I feel I really reallllyyy like him or can i love him that quick, and before he left he came over and said cya l8er, and gave me a kiss on the forehead, a couple ov days after i told ppl i think i'm falling for him, out ov the ppl i told this one guy didnt keep the secret and he told him what i said, the guy that told him just completely made it out as a big laugh, he saved the convo i had with him on msn and sent it to the guy i says i liked, the guy I like talked to me about it on msn and says,"your falling for me", and say yeah, a cant help ,then the guy says "but its wierd", so up till now av dreading to morra nyt to see what he says to me face to face, and for the record he's goin out with a girl, and he never does this kinda thing when theres alot more ov our friends around, I'm thinkin he could be like BI/BI- curious, sorry for making a life time story, hope youve got some gd advice,,,
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reader, gayguy16 +, writes (20 March 2008):
gayguy16 is verified as being by the original poster of the question ryt,,its the thursday after that friday,,,,, he was hanging about him self all nyt acting wierd,,he kept walking about h by him self and moping about,,,WTF,,am even more confused now,,,2 girly friends says you should go talk to im but after that I couldnt find him,,,,,,
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2008): You were drunk, so when you are drunk you act weird, even straight guys give kisses to everyone when they are drunk they become lovely to everyone for a little while and sometimes after that violent depends the amount of alcohol you get, I am gay, and i can tell you boy that is not love, that is only desire of sex, love does not come like this, specially when you are gay you get confused wishes, fantasies, flesh, over love.I can tell i have experience all of them. But you became obseced with the wishes of flesh. That can not be love, and he was not right when he did what he has done. Anyways even before drinking we should be responsible for our acts. So i will say you both are responsable of what you have done. Wish you luck and face to face will be the best
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reader, MissKin +, writes (19 March 2008):
 Because you were both (by the sounds of it) drunk, you can't be sure of why anything happened or his motives behind anything. If he knows you like him and he didn't automatically say 'i'm not gay' or something similar to that then i'm guessing he's probably confused about his sexuality - but at the same time this doesn't mean he is gay or bi, it could simply mean he's confused. The fact that he's got a girlfriend could prove to be a big problem - even if he decides he is bi/bi-curious/gay.
Either way, what have you got to lose by finding out what he has to say? If you don't meet him face to face you'll never know what could have been. It could end up that you're disapointed but things come and go and there will be others if this doesn't work out. Try not take it too heavily as maybe he isn't sure himself yet hence when he said 'it's weird.'
I wish I could advise more but really you just have to wait and see what happens.
I wish you the best of luck,
Miss Kin.
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