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*alentine
writes:My fiance and I are into a little bit of the old vampirism. Biting and that's about it.Last night however, we did something for the first time and I'm unsure of how to feel about it. He offered me his arm and told me to bite and draw blood. This I've only done once, that was with an old boyfriend, and by accident.So naturally when he asked me to do this, I was a little scared. It took me a little while to gather the courage to do it. He helped me, he wanted to take our relationship somewhere new, as did I.I bit and drew blood and yeah, I drank it.. I'd never felt so high in all my life. All my worries disappeared and all physical feeling sky rocketed. And I must say, the sex that night, was the best we'd ever had, he said the same thing.Still. I'm a little worried that he may want me to do it more frequently, and I don't like hurting him. But the sex was 'incredible'.I'm in a tear between facing my fear of hurting him, and doing it when we feel like it. Or not doing it again.What do you think?Valentine
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reader, obsessive_couple  +, writes (19 March 2008):
 I think it's cute ^_^If you're both into it then why not? Some people just have weird fetishes. Thee's nothing wrong with it.I'm sure that you already know about all the diseases and whatnot, but as long as you know that you're both clean, I find nothing wrong with it.You might get weird looks when people see his wrist, but I'd just giggle about it, personally ^_^Just remember to take good after care of your skin afterwards. Have some salve and whatnot handy. :P Maybe even have it there beside the bed? Whatever makes you life more happy!
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reader, MBHP +, writes (19 March 2008):
Mine asked me to bite him too! At first i was like woaaah cause i hate the thought of hurting anybody, but its only fair to give it a go.I guess like anything if you do it too often it will get boring so i'd carry on with little bites and more tamer sex and hold back the heavy stuff for special occasions, try exploring other 'fetishy' things for some more options other than hurting him. Tied up is really fun :) x
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): Hi Hunny
I hope you realise the dangers of infections hunny, I mean its entirly up to the 2 of you what you do in the bedroom, im just hoping you are aware of all the H.I.V! HEPATITIS!
http://www.cdc.gov/ncidod/diseases/hepatitis/c/lbtinfo.htm
Ive sent u a link hunny you just never know if this is a practise that he has done before with other girls you dont no what he may have picked up hunny TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (19 March 2008):
 Hi Valentine, this is quite a question! Personally, the sight of my own blood makes me faint. I have to be lying down when blood is drawn, or *poof* I pass out.
I do believe that people should have safe, sane, consensual, mutually satisfying sex. And if one partner finds something inappropriate, troubling, uncomfortable or dangerous, then the other partner should respect that and not push to do it.
I am concerned a lot about your stated age and the fact that you are exchanging body fluids. You've been with at least on other partner and I expect your fiance has too?
If you're going to continue on with this particular practice, you should at least make yourself completely knowledgable about the risks. There are a number of viruses that are spread through contact with blood, including HIV, Hepatitis B and Hepatitis C. I've put some links down below that will help you in researching risks and understanding what contracting one or more of these viruses could do to your future health.
One other thing, don't donate blood; you have put yourself in a high-risk group and should not put others in the same risk category.
All the best!
http://www.webmd.com/hepatitis/hepb-guide/hepatitis-b-topic-overview
http://www.webmd.com/hepatitis/hepb-guide/hepatitis-b-what-increases-your-risk
http://www.webmd.com/hepatitis/hepatitis-c-faq
http://www.webmd.com/hiv-aids/guide/sexual-health-aids
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (19 March 2008):
 What you are doing is highly dangerous.
You can catch HIV or Hepititus from drinking other people's blood, stop this bizarre practise at once.
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reader, Lo lo +, writes (19 March 2008):
Dont do it. Its no good for you. He just likes the frill and excitment. Think of other ways to spice up in the bed room. Praps roll play. Just dont get 2 in to what you are doing it wont torn out good in the end. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): i think its disgusting! You're engaged at 16/17! Sorry girl Ii dont think that's gonna last! Only do what YOU want to do! So even if he wants 2 do it, only do it if you want to too!
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