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female
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writes: Hey I'm soo confused!!I just started dating this guy named Paul.But before that I had a "friends with bens" relationship with my friend Alex.Problem: I didn't date Alex because his mom is racist and wouldn't let him date. So I kinda gave up o that and told him that we should just be friends. Then I stated daing Paul. The thing is that Alex was gonna kiss me the day right before I said we should be friends. Then, three days later his mom finally says he can date. I still have feelings for Alex but I love Paul. I don't know what to do!! I mean I love Paul but I've only known him for about a month. I've known Alex for like a year. Also,Alex is telling me all this stuff like " I was gonna kiss you that day. I love you please don't date him." So should I just stay with Paul or go to Alex?? Is Alex jealous??
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reader, Devilish Angel +, writes (20 March 2008):
Take a step back. Take a deep breath. Think with your mind, not your heart. Look at both the guys. Which one do you truly love? Do you 'love' Paul because you've always wanted him and how am finally able to have him? Does Alex truly care for you? Is he just being possessive? When you can think with your mind clearly, you'll know which decision to really take.
Good luck sugar
P.S. It'll be very hard.
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reader, Danixcuntxface +, writes (20 March 2008):
I've been in yur shoes. I say you date alex. You've known him longer and u both like each other. U barely know paul
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