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writes: i really dont know what to do....me n my bf of nearly a year have split up because i found something on his computer that he had said to another girl but i have betrayed his stuff as it was the 3rd time i went through his private things after him tellin me not to do but the onlu reason i kept doing it was because i kept finding things if i didnt find anything i wouldnt do it, i know i am in the wrong and shouldnt of in the 1st place but i did, he has split up with me and he is saying its for good now i really feel like i carnt live without him!!! i love him so much i have said we need space but i have txt him today about something im doing for his mum and he has said that i can go to his house when he is out an about but he never goes anywhere i know that and he has said that my stuff is still his room and its painful that they are there so he wants them out but im thinkin the fact that he wants my stuff out his room and that he is all of a sudden going out somewhere makes me think he has someone else which would kill me if he did, i dont know what to do to prove i will never do it again and i need him back im hurtin to the extreme!!! help
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (19 March 2008):
 First of all, you know in your heart you will never trust him again don't promise anyone that you don't do it again because he's already proven that he is dishonest and will do things with other girls behind your back. You know you'll always wonder and that will lead to checking and then when you find evidence again, you'll have to confront him. My advise is to move on. He's a cheater. You deserve better.
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reader, LIERIN  +, writes (19 March 2008):
 Well ... first of all .. you should never go through his stuff ... but .. oh well .. you DID ..
Sometimes I have the feeling I want to go through my BFs room and look for stuff .. but I never do. Once I found pictures by an accident and I was so mad, that he kept his old GFs pictures. I thought he is keeping them, because he still loves her ...
The thruth? He didnt even know that he had it .. his room is a mess ... most guys just don't even know what is in this corner or this corner of their room.
What did he write to that other girl? What was it that got you so upset???
Go to his house, be proud, take your stuff. Show him,that you really mean it .. and if he is worth it, and he really loves you, he will try to talk to you and make things right, eventho, you were wrong in a first place by going through his stuff ... but I think most women do that.
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