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Archived questions from: 15 December, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Should I buy my girlfriend a dildo for Christmas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

15 December 2008 (M) - My problem is so weird.... and I'm kinda stuck... my girlfriend and I tell each other everything and she told me she had tried a friend's dildo before and it was fun for her and she loved it but it was her friend's moms so she never had a chance to ...

I try to please everyone but myself!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5825 days ago

15 December 2008 (M) - dear ladies, For 7 months now I've been with my girlfriend, I'm very happy with her!!! We are close...... Just lately my attitude has changed towards her and I feel confused and lost as my love is still there for her... I spend three times a week ...

Is he only with me because he doesn't want to come out of the closet completely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - Is my boyfriend gay? He recently told me he would like to try oral sex with a man, then asked me if I would like to watch. I agreed to it and he has been cruising personal ads nonstop for the right person. Then he told me yesterday he would like ...

Is something going on behind my back with her and the ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

15 December 2008 (M) - Hi, I have been with my gf for 3 years now, were both young, early twenties. probably like most relationships we have our fair share of ups and downs, recently mostly downs and she has started to doubt our relationship. I know for a fact sh...

15 years old and never had a boyfriend. Strange???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - I am 15 years old and I've never had a boyfriend. (trying to keep it simple) I am waiting for the right guy but I want to know what people think about it....

How do I deal with the aftermath of the WEEK FROM HELL

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - This week so far my mum tried to kill herself by taking an overdose and crashing into a tree, and is now in a mental institution. I had a massive fight with my dad A good friend had an accident and is now in a coma. I crashed my car (I'm n...

I hate his ex and she's coming back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5826 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - Hi. I'm feeling anxious, sad, insecure and jealous for no good reason. I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 23. He's been my first boyfriend and we've been together for 2 years and 3 months. In the beginning everything was perfect as we are very, very, very...

I have a boyfriend but I would like to sleep with a girl... is that normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5826 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - I have a boyfriend but I would like to sleep with a girl... is that normal?...

Should I date my daughter's boyfriend's father?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4107 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - Help me please! My daughter is 20 and she has been dating this young man for a year and a half. I went to high school with his Dad. Well me and his dad went out this weekend and had an amazing time. I really believe this relationship could go ...

I'm 29 and never had a boyfriend, any advice from the male?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - hi i was wondering can any one help me . i am 29 years old and i have never had a boyfriend. i never even got my first kiss. i don't know and everyone else does. all but me. every guy i like rather someone else and never me. they r...

How can I make my ex want to try again and prove I'm not clingy anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5826 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - my boyfriend says he broke up with me because i was emotionally clingy; and i want to start over and maybe try again in the future; but do you think he wouldnt want to try again cause i was "emotionally clingy"? and after we broke up i tryed talk...

How do I tell my parents that I'm dating their friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - I've been seeing my dad's friend for a few months, he is quite a bit older than me. How do I tell my mum and dad about it?...

She needs time but am I wasting mine? Should I keep trying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

15 December 2008 (M) - i've been textin this girl for nearly 2 months now and i really like her alot. but im not realy sure if she likes me. a few weeks after i was textin her i asked her did i have a chance and she said i would have if it was a while longer, because she ...

He says I'm hot! Does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5826 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - Okay well theres this guy nd hes my lab partner and i like him and he knwes i do. But idk how he feels he tells his friend that im "hott" and that he might ask me out but i dont knwe. Me and his ex girlfriend got in to a fight and she said thats her ...

She confessed she loved me after 5 months, I can't say it back yet, could this ruin what we have?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

15 December 2008 (M) - My girlfriend told me she loved me today. We've only known each other for 5 months and been going out for one of them. We were lying down and I didn't know what to say and kind of stared at her for a little while. I then sort of mumbled -"i think i ...

Does anyone understand why he is now ignoring me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - I need a good, clear, understandable explanation to this puzzling problem Why would a guy I've had a past with and admitted before that he liked me, text me (sometimes 5 times a day), talk to me online, tell me about his life and what he's doing,...

Ejaculation problems... is it me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - I have been with my man for 3 years the sex has been great but recently I have noticed that he has not been able to ejaculate while have intercourse. He will ejaculate while we are having oral sex, is there something wrong with me? For some reason ...

He wants to leave town and find a job somewhere else.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - Hi.. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 years. We had many break ups but none of them where over serious issues. But about 2 months ago we broke up and only got back together after one month and a lot of begging from my side. We both ...

Advise on dating an older woman

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

15 December 2008 (M) - I am interested in dating an older woman. Ladies can you give some advice? How should I ask her out? How would an older woman like to do on a date? Should I bring her a gift when we go on the date? What kind of things make good gifts? ...

Girlfriend slept with other guys should I be ok with it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

15 December 2008 (M) - my girl likes to hang out her guy frends but some of them shes slept with should i be okay with that ...

Should I ask him to leave his wife of 37 years for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - I'm in love with a married man. We've been seeing each other everyday now for the past 6months sex is great.how can I ask him to leave his wife of 37 yrs. No kids involved,but there is a grand child. How can his wife not expect something? ...

I have feelings for my ex's brother

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5826 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - hey yes , im still in love with my ex , but i dont know what to do , all my friends say get over him , and i kinda have , but i still have very strong feelings for him , but i have been worried about the feelings im getting for my exs brother ...

I want him at any cost, what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - I love a boy very much...I want him at any cost...he is my good friend,we have a very good time with each other but I want to have love relationships with him...both his and mine friend tease us by each other name...some of my friends say that he ...

I'm bisexual - why does my interest for guys last so shortly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - please help me! i am bi and have been attracted to many women, and a few men. recently i found out that the overall attraction i have for any guy would not last more a month. i don't know why this has been happening, but i know those guys who have ...

I'm missing him a lot but don't want to appear clingy, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - Hi. I recently started dating a guy - we've been together for about 4 weeks but live really close to each other so have been seeing a lot of each other. I go to his and he makes me dinner and we spend whole days just visiting places and getting ...

I'm obsessed with my girlfriend, any self-help methods you can recommend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - i am in a relationship with a very charming and beautiful woman who is my classmate in the university and also a ex-colleague in a modelling agency. she's bisexual, and i was straight before i met her.. it wasnt too difficult for us to get to...

I want my driving instructor but he doesn't want to cross that line...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

15 December 2008 (?) - I've been doing driving lesson for a few months .........the problem is I have started to like my instructor in more than just a friendly way. I told him this. He didn't exactly say - Oh no! We had a good chat about it. He is said he found me attr...

Can I get with my brother's girlfriend without hurting him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5826 days ago

15 December 2008 (M) - hello i have this freind who is seeing my brouther the other day i was talking with her and she told me she didnt love my brouther and didnt want to be with him anymore and that she had feelings for me which the feeling is the same here with me as ...

Isn't what he's done to me cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - I'm writing because my head is so confused I don't know what is right or wrong any more. I've been with a guy now for 4 years living together and he's been fathering my 2 children, don't get me wrong he's a nice guy, good father to them but I've ...

Is it appropiate for a guy who has a girlfriend to tell other girls he thinks they are cute?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - Is it appropiate for a guy who has a girlfriend to tell other girls he thinks they are cute and so on? It really hurts my feelings when my bf does this. I know it doesnt mean he is necessarily cheating on me, and in fact i dont think he is at a...

I'm giving her space but what if I'm putting my life on hold for nothing?

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15 December 2008 (M) - I first met this girl who I spoken to briefly about 6 months ago. About 6 weeks ago we met again. She said she remembered me as she found it refreshing for someone to come up to her and be decent without trying it on and because of that was looking ...

How can I stand out to his mother

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5826 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend had introduced many of his previous girlfriends to his mother. These were all relationships that ended up badly with a lot of drama, and he told me his mother didn't like them when she met them anyway. His mother is a single working ...

She slept with her ex after spending the night with me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

15 December 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 9 months and I had accepted her sexual past. Recently I found out that she slept with her ex just before we started dating. The thing is just before this happened we spent the night together as friends and ...

My girlfriend saw her friend trying to kiss me and stormed out, how to get her to listen to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5826 days ago

15 December 2008 (?) - My girlfriend's friend come up to and tried to me kiss (she was so drunck that she coundnt think straight) at a party that my girlfriend and me went to. Of coruse I didnt let her I stop her she get more then 6 inches. But my gf saw us together and ...

Help, I'm losing him because of my trust issues!

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15 December 2008 (F) - Hi, in the past ive had my heart broken. I've been in two relationships and got cheated on in both instances. Since ive gotten over them, i've become friends with my ex's and at some point they've both regretted their actions and wanted me back. ...

Why do I fall for men so fast? What can I do to avoid this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5826 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - Why is it that I fall for men so fast? For example, after just one or two dates with a guy, I will get bummed out if he doesn't answer a call. Instantly I will assume that he doesn't like me. Or if I liked him, I will want to hang out like th...

Should I hold it against her that she neglected to tell me she has kids?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5827 days ago

15 December 2008 (M) - I have been in a relationship with a wonderful woman for six months now. I am very much in love with her and want to take the next step in asking her to marry me. We are in a long distance relationship now. We communicate daily and never run out of ...

I like my friend's older brother! How to make him notice me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - so there's this guy i like but i'm not exactly sure if he also likes me, he's really cool around me like he would always hug me n all that, me n him would always have the "eye contact" but then one of my girlfriends he's always joking around with ...

I know our relationship is strong enough for long distance, so why doesn't she want it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5827 days ago

15 December 2008 (M) - Hello to all! So here is my dilemma, I have been dating this girl for about 3 years now. It is true love like I have never felt before...I am 28 and have been around the block so don't ping me. I know my girlfriend feels the same way, we never ar...

Did he really fall in love with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5827 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - In middle school, I met my best friend. The problem was, I never saw him as just that. We "dated" for like two months when I was 13. Obviously it wasn't serious though because I was so young. Yet when I broke up with him, I realized that I was in ...

I am DESPERATE for a baby!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - My name is Valerie I have been trying to have a baby now for 11 years. I don't know what's going wrong but anyway, if me and my boyfriend come together, can I get pregnant. Is there anything I can take to get pregnant?????...

He told me that only one other girl has ever made him cum with a condom on. Pressure!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for about a month now and we arent bf/gf because ive just come out of a 2 year relationship (my first long term one if you can call it long term) and this new guy is amazing. but the problem is that he told me that only 2 ...

Should I wait for him or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - I desperately need advice. Please help :) I'm 20 and about 8 months ago I broke up with my boyfriend after 14 months together, within a month of breaking up with him my brothers friend *Anthony kissed me one night. Initially i didnt think much...

A baby crazed Christmas!!! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) - OMG!I need help! I have no clue what to do! I dont know whether my hormones have gone insane or my maternal instincts have overtaken me, but I am baby crazed. I have no idea why, I've always wanted kids but now I think I've just gone crazy lol. My ...