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Archived questions from: 29 December, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Why am I so scared to sleep with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, my problem is short and sweet..... basically I am not a virgin by any means, and have had sex MORE than enough with previous long term boyfriends. I've never been nervous in the bedroom, have always been very experimental, and had a ...

What are some good games to play with my boyfriend while we're making out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - What are some good games to play with my boyfriend while we're making out? I have a few but others would be appreciated :D ...

Should I shave in preparation for sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - So, me and my boyfriend are wanting to have sex sometime soon but I don't know if I should shave down there or not. Should I ask him or is it weird to ask your boyfriend something like that? Or do most guys like it shaved or just trimmed? Or leave ...

I think my boyfriend is hiding something from me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5799 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I think my boyfriends hiding something from me cause he always recently takes off and leaves me home so he could go to the store or to work on his days off. Has he started an affair with someone?...

Should I be worried about her mother catching us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - hi Me and my girlfriend are both 15 and we were foreplaying in her bedroom, her mother stugled to get through the door however i though we were safe, until my girlfriend came back in after talking to her mother and her mother realised her bra...

Should we give it another go? We were almost caught!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - Im 15 and me and my girlfriend had been together for four months and we had foreplayed with each other many times, not long ago we were in her front room with the front window open, we got down to skins and i got on top however i couldn't do it, we ...

He will not introduce me to his family.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I have been having a relationship with a man for 8 years. We do not live together although I would like to and asked him if he would buy a house with me. He replied that he will not buy a house with a woman again. I went ahead alone. I have tw...

Should I have made a move when she kissed me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - Hi Me and my girlfriend broke up because she thought i loved her to much? I ran 12 miles to hand her some flowers and to talk about it, however her sister took the flowers and she didn't want to speak to me. as i was running back she called me a...

We've kissed and he has a girfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I have been working with someone for about 6months now, we get one really well, always laughing and have a weird connection, like we've known each other for years. He recently told me that he likes me, but he has a live in girlfriend of 12yrs. He is ...

Am I wasting time waiting for him? He was unfaithful.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend were going through a hard time recently, (all down to him being unfaithfull last year)i dont always bring it up but there are times when it gets to me and i do make references about it. over the phone we had a discussion, mainly ...

How can I be more confident sexually?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I have been seeing this amazing guy for about six months, he has been great with me but says he wishes I was more forward in makin moves, I have always let him do the work, lack of confidence I suppose, he wants me to go on top, how can I become ...

Am I destined for permanent fuck buddy status?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I'm 23 years old and I have had literally enough boyfriends to equal my age. Its really depressing because no matter who I date (older or yonger, race, religion, whatever)every guy I've ever dated only looks at me as a fuck buddy. I recently...

How do I become more relaxed around guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I need some advice on how to become more relaxed around guys, to cut a long story short I am 24 year old female who has never been near the opposite sex (like I say long story), I have recently been flirting with this guy but I know that I am to ...

Is my need for attention driving him away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - On saturday, my boyfriend and i had plans to go to the movies. We were walking around the mall, then went to look at movie times. There were 2 showings, 7:15 and 9. It was already 7, so i suggested 9 so that we could eat first. He said we could just ...

What do guys consider 'old fashioned'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Ok, I'm getting to know this guy..just phone talk for now. He asks "Are you an old fashioned girl?" What do guys consider old fashioned..? I said, "No, I'm not." It's true. Then, his response was "Ok, I was just making sure, otherwise, we wo...

Kissing age?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - just looking for others outlooks but does anyone think 16 is too young to be making out with a boyfriend of six months? ...

Why do I get so jealous when he visits his mother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Why is that i get so jealous even when he is visiting his own mother? We have been dating for 7 months now and he happens to be devoiced and he is 12 older then me. Can it be that im afraid he might run into his ex wife, even if she is not in the ...

Can things work the second time around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - I have been getting very close to a lady who was on the verge of divorce, but her husband has manipulated her to go back together, they did seperate for months, he was gambling and drinking, but it does look as if they are back together, they were ...

My guy and his best female friend have weird relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I have been dating this guy for two months and one of his best friends is a girl. I know her and she is nice to me but there is something i cant really put my finger on it but something weird about their relationship. She has a husband and a child ...

Is it too much money for a present?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - hey guys do you think that spending £350 on a birthday present for your boyfriend is too much... ive been with him for a year now... he really wants a tv so i said i would buy it for him... he feels obligated but doesnt really insist that i doont ...

I want him to leave my house and he won't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I am ending a 16 month relationship due to his disloyalty and lying. He currently lives with me in a home I own. I want him to leave and he won't! I have confronted him with his lies and cheating and he seems to be in complete denial about all of ...

Can we ever be equal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Can we ever be equal? in the beginning of our relationship me and my boyfriend had an argument and he said we were over because i was having a few drinks with my ex and our mayte, just as friends, my mayte went home because she lived around t...

I was just wondering how reliable the withdrawal method is?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for 3 years and are getting married in March. We recently switched to the withdrawal method of birth control (before that I was on the depo shot). I was just wondering how reliable the withdrawal method is? Has ...

One boy always on my mind...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I fancy this boy and I think he fancies me and I am meeting him on Saturday at a football game. I really want to kiss him, shall I ask him if he will kiss me or just wait? Please help anyone please x...

Whenever we're socialising my girlfriend always takes photos of other guys' legs and it's started worrying me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - I'm Steve, 23 years old from South Yorkshire and my girlfriend is 22 and lives in nearby Nottinghamshire. Whenever we're socialising she always takes photos of other guys' legs and it's started worrying me - not in a jealous way, but rather about...

What can I do to make our sex life better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are together for 1 year and 6 months and we had great sex in the beginning but nowadays he tells me that I don't participate in the times when we have sex..... Can you please tell me what I can do before it's too late and before ...

Am I overreacting!! Help please!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - I just dont know where to start!! I am going insane lately and dont know if its me or what? I dont even know why I am doing this but I need some views!! I met this guy last year over the net was a tad dubious at the start as there is a 22 year age...

How do I go on? Do I continue to date him? Do I end it? What do I do next time he phones?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I am in a VERY CONFUSING situation right now with an incident that happened recently. I have been seeing this guy for about 3 months, we have been on about 10 dates but never declared ourselves exclusive or anything. I've had sex with him 6 times an...

I'm only with him because I'm scared to be alone after all this time.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5789 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - hi all, I really need some help. i've been in my relationship for 5 years but i've begun feeling differently about my bf. Lately I feel like we are not as connected as we used to be. I used to believe that my bf was the perfect person for me, a...

Recently I have not been able to have an orgasm during sex.

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29 December 2008 (F) - Recently I have not been able to have an orgasm during sex. The person I have been sleeping with has been the same for 2.5 years but about 2 months ago I stopped being able to have an orgasm during sex. Just recently I have not even be able to do it ...

Too much porn, not enough sex?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - My bf and I have been together for almost 6 years. He's always liked porn (a lot) and watch it every chance he gets. However, we have sex like once a week, but he watches porn almost every other day or every three days by himself(that's if I leave ...

I am drawn to this man but the age gap scares me, what to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5802 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I'm torn. I met a 22-year-old man on a plane this past weekend. We really hit it off and had a lot in common. When we got off in LA, he asked for my number, saying he'd like to take me out to dinner. I told him it would easier for me to reach him,...

Work romance - how do I know if he cares?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am at a cross roads in my relationship and I need some advice. I have been in a secret work relationship for a few months now. The relationship started off as not being very serious, we both agreed that we would hangout and talk...

Where do you think our relationship is going?

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29 December 2008 (F) - Hi, need some thoughts on this matter. After a period of being single, I finally met P, a friend of friends and we've been together for 1month+. We are similar in age (28), interests, share the same friends and he treats me very well. I've met most ...

I was more like a free shrink to her than a boyfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - I was friends with this girl for over 8 months and then we both started developing feelings for each other. She told me first that she likes me and we became closer. After 2 weeks she told me that she doesn't feel the same without giving any reason ...

I have to choose between two guys!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Hello, I need some help and advice. I have to decide between two men and I just dont know what to do. One is my ex. We dated for almost a year, and I know that is a short time but we had chemistry and nobody like him ever made me feel like ...

Just how important is sex in a relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I'm a virgin. My boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for a year. Why on and off you ask, or maybe you don't, but I will briefly explain why. He had feelings for me for 9 months and I told him I wasn't ready for a relationship, but as soon as ...

Could this be true love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - My question is can a month long relationship in junior high REALLY be a person's first TRUE love. My gf and I wre talking and she says a guy she dated then was her first TRUE love but I dont think a month can constitute that. I sorta believe that ...

Did he lose service or something? He hasn't texted me all day!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend hasn't texted me for a day. It's really annoying I only texted him twice yesterday and then I was like w/e but, it's really annoying. I'm away in Colordao and I know he likes me alot he tells people and we've been going out for 3 weeks ...

How can I move on when I'm hurting so much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5798 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Oh why did I have to go and fall in love with him, i'm so stupid I promised myself I would never let myself fall so deep for another again, I promised myself that I wouldn't open my heart to him not until I was one hundred percent sure that he was ...

Do I love him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - hi iam 18 and bin with my bf for 7 months ago its goin great but when we have these little arugements i use to get upset but the other day we had a silly roul n i didnt get upset he loves me to bits but sometimes i think to my self do i love him ?? ...

Help, I've ruined my relationship.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - HI there. I am in desperate need of advice; I have had an amazing relationship with my boyfriend who I consider my best friend, and my lover, for two and a half years; but now it has gone really astray. In the past 2 years I've suffered from pa...

Would it work better if we didn't use a condom?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Hi this is gonna sound so stupid but me and my boyfriend tried 2 have sex and couldn't.... it wouldn't go in and he was wearing a condom. Now he thinks there's something wrong with him and I don't know what to do.... Would it work better if we ...