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Archived questions from: 2 December, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I'm falling for him, but I don't want to!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5839 days ago

2 December 2008 (F) - i think im falling for a guy at college. i dont want to but its still happening and i hate that old feeling returning, of thinking about them always, staring at your phone, urgh iv had disappointing experiences and dont expect anything from him so ...

Is it okay that I'm falling for an older man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

2 December 2008 (F) - Im 27 and dating a 43 year old man? is that ok? i feel like all eyes are on me when we both go into public... what should i do?...

Was I rejected? What do I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

2 December 2008 (M) - PLEASE COULD YOU DELETE MY PREVIOUS ENTRY OF THIS Q, AS I MADE A CRUCIAL SPELLING MISTAKE THAT EFFECTED MY Q AND AS I RESPONDED TO AMEND THIS, MY MSG IS DISPLAYED AS ANSWERED, THEREFORE I'M UNLIKELY TO GET A REPLY FROM ANYONE - THX (SORRY COULDN'T ...

Guys have it easier!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

2 December 2008 (F) - it is easier for a guy to get a girlfreid then a guy getting a boyfreind. how is it when a guy likes girl he doesn,t get rejected .but when a girl likes a guy she gets rejected that is very unfair. why is it so easy for guy to get girlfreind a...

Haven't heard from him, what do you think is wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

2 December 2008 (F) - Can someone give me their views please! I've been seeing this guy since July, we knew each other before but started talking through mutual friends this year, I been going to his house almost every week sometimes more, longest I haven't seen him was ...

He likes someone else, but is willing to have me as second best... Should I get with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

2 December 2008 (F) - Do you think its silly if you dont want to get into something with someone that not only admits they are a commitment phobe, but also that has always liked someone you both know, but she doesn't like him in that way? Would you feel 2nd best? And ...

My boyfriend is being horrible now I'm pregnant and chatting up other girls!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5839 days ago

2 December 2008 (F) - Im 7months pregnant and i feel so insecure unattractive u name it. since i've been pregnant me ang my boyfriend don't have sex he says its because my stomach is a turn off then he has never called me sexy and hes all on the computer callin these ...

Have I been rejected? What do I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5839 days ago

2 December 2008 (M) - Dear All I would really appreciate any advice you may be able to offer, I’m so distraught in confusion, thank you. Heres the story... I’m in 5th year of secondary school, I’m leaving next June. I have been really fond of this girl since...

We've been going out but he says he doesn't want a relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

2 December 2008 (F) - Hi, I have dated my friend now for 4 months. We talk everyday and go out very frequently even though we both have very demanding careers. The problem is that he has refused to define what the relationship is. He keeps saying he isnt ready for...

First date went well... no call back!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

2 December 2008 (F) - First date went well.... no call back? I All, I met this guy online and we got on really well when we spoke over the phone. He asked me if I'd like to meet him and we agreed to meet up for some drinks on Saturday. The date went well, we...

YOUR views on commitment please!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

2 December 2008 (F) - Do you think most guys don't want to "commit" in their 20's even if they REALLY like a girl? Or would even a guy who doesn't like commitment commit if he found the perfect girl? What do you guys think?...

How do I REALLY pleasure him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

2 December 2008 (F) - I'm a virgin.. my boyfriend isn't. I know what to do.. but not how to really pleasure him like he does me. I want to make it good for him too.. e.g.; like I know how to touch him but what would he really like?? Sorry if that's a little graphic ...

Should I just cut my losses and dump him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

2 December 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am 20 years old, and have been going out with my boyfriend for 5 months now since we met through a workmate of mine. He’s 27 Everything was going great until he dropped a bombshell after we had been going out for almost 2 months, ...

I love him to bits... how do I get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

2 December 2008 (F) - How do i get him back? i am totally confused! i dated this guy for 5 months, he had just came out of a long term relationship. while we were together everything was amazing, he told me that he loved me and i replyed how i felt about him. i told him ...

Trying to conceive...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

2 December 2008 (F) - Me and my partner have been trying to concieve for the past 6 months, this month was messed up and didn't get to have sex until day 20, 23, and 24. Could I stand a chance of being pregnant, I know you couldn't say I would, however I understood it ...

How can someone change like this into a complete dickhead?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

2 December 2008 (F) - I had a boyfriend of seven months. We split in june 08. He promised me the world told me he loved me and would never leave me and i thought that he meant every single word of everything he ever told me. I had never felt a love like it and feel i ...

Boyfriend kept a previous relationship secret for no reason.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5839 days ago

2 December 2008 (F) - A girl (lets call her A) has a dispute with her bf (lets call him R.) They have met whilst studying abroad and had a long distance relationship. Whilst abroad they were just dating, but their talks and the way they related to each other could be ...

He say's I'm bad for him, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

2 December 2008 (F) - Dave* and I have been friends for around 5 years, he's always claimed to have a 'thing' for me but due to his popularity with other women I've never believed him. We lost touch for around a year and when we began talking again in March there wa...

Need to end relationship, want to minimise hurt.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

2 December 2008 (M) - Hi I've been dating now for 5 months, a girl i met online of all things, we chatted for a very long time as friends before dating. Things have got very close, we have told each other we love each other and i do love her to bits, its a distance r...

Why did he change his mind so quickly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

2 December 2008 (F) - There's a guy that I work with that I like. We are the same age (24). We were smoking a cigarette outside together and he said he got off at midnight and to call him so we could hang out. I got his number and texted him around 12:20. He said he was ...

I love this girl, how can I make her believe me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5839 days ago

2 December 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid, I love a girl who's name is riya....she was had a BF 2years ago, who break her virginity and she was very much attached toward him....and 2 years later she is with me now like friend but I like her and I fell in love with her...but now ...

Can a secret love destroy my friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5838 days ago

2 December 2008 (F) - About 2 months ago I started hanging out with this guy. He's nice, sweet, treats me right and makes me happy. We hang out about once or twice a week and can just chill and lounge around. I really like spending time with him and we text back and ...

How to convince her not to doubt our future so much? We are good together now.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5840 days ago

2 December 2008 (M) - Alright so heres the deal. Me and my girlfriend used to be friends for a few years before we decided to move it to the next level. Now we've been together for almost a year and its been great..up until recently i havent had any worries. At the...

Can we fall in love more than twice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

2 December 2008 (F) - Can we fall in love more than twice? I had a first love at 18 that took me years to get over. Then at 22 even though I didn't think it could happen I fell madly in love again. But he broke my heart recently. Now, I'm 24. I had said to my ...

How can I help my depressed friend out? I fear this guy is only playing with her emotions, yet again!

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2 December 2008 (F) - This may be a little lengthy but I need you to understand the whole situation. I have a friend who has always been slightly low on self-confidence. We have been close friends for a long time and I love her dearly. About 7 months ago, her mom pas...

He doesn't pursue me in a eager way! Is he just nervous or dates me out of boredom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

2 December 2008 (F) - I met a guy online and now have been out with him twice. He has my phone number. We have briefly talked on the phone but mostly played phone tag on each others voicemails. He keeps emailing me to ask me out not only that but each time he takes a few ...

Why is that I always pick the wrong guy?

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2 December 2008 (F) - I have a super bad luck with guys. I'm 31 yrs old, never had an official boyfriend, and the guys I've liked they never feel the same way back, just the losers type which some have become even pathetic stalkers. Now, it's worst b/c I fall in love f...

What is a "meaningful" X-mas gift for my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

2 December 2008 (?) - Ok, so, my boyfriend is 18 and i am 17 and this will be our first christmas together, but i have a problem i have absolutely no idea what to get him! I thought about getting him a nice cologne or something, but my boyfriend said that he was going to ...

How long does thrush take to disappear?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5840 days ago

2 December 2008 (F) - Hi. Me and my bf have had a lot of sex lately using protection. Today I woke up with the worst thrush imaginable! I have used the canesten once pessary to try and get rid of it and the external use cream. I used the pessary this morning and I'm...