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Archived questions from: 9 December, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Just found out my girlfriend had a child and put it up for adoption - now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

9 December 2008 (M) - I have been dating a girl in a long distance relationship for three months now. She just sent me a letter that told me how she got pregnant a couple of years ago with a jerk ex-boyfriend. She had the kid and gave it away in an open adoption. She ...

Fiancee trouble!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - My fiancee has been ignoring me and not calling me. I love him so much and want to be with him. I haven't seen him for 3 weeks. I don't know what to do I want to be with him. When I do se him it's like all he wants is sex and I want more than that. ...

He mentioned also that he's not ready for committment is this an impulse decision or he just didn't love me enough?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5832 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - Me and my ex broke up twice already second break up just happen a week ago, theres a lot of things happen I got pregnant he was so happy and excited but then I lost the baby, he was still taking care of me he said he loves me but then later after my ...

I think it's wierd that he still lives at home at the age of 27

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5832 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - Hiya, I have been with my Fiance for over 3 years now. We are very happy together and are planning an overseas wedding for 2010. We live in different cities and see each other every other week or so, and we have done since we were together...

What is the secret that guys have of making girls fall in love with them???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - Hi, I was just wondering could a male reader tell me? The guys I like or fancy boast about there so called girlfreinds to me all the time. I don't know why, it's like I want to know because I don't so why do they do it to me it's so annoying...

How can I give this girl a Christmas card without seeming creepy?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

9 December 2008 (M) - There's this extremely shy, beautiful and smart girl (we'll call her Pamela) that I've adored for some time now. Since it's almost Christmas time, I have thought of giving her a simple card, but I get a bad feeling that she may not like me back, and ...

Am I alone or lonely?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

9 December 2008 (M) - For years I've pondered what the differences between the two really are. And I cant seem to figure out which one I fall under here. So far being lonely means, to me (or Ive researched) being sad that your alone. Not having confidence in yo...

Do I want a relationship or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - I'm 17 and in the past year I've had five very big chances to be in a relationship, however I've taken none of them. Only recently I've been attracted to a boy who's flirted with me back and it's been fun - however when I found out that he actually ...

Why do guys boast to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - hi i was just woundering could male reader tell me why guys boost about there so called girlfreinds to me all the time.i don,t know why ,its like i want to know because i don,t so why do they do it to me its so annoying,and talking to me as if i ...

How can I change things when I don't feel wanted?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - Ive been with my bf for nearly 3 years. We broke up for 5 months about 3 months ago and he slept with another girl. I thought things would get better becuase he started to treat me better and tried to make up for what he did. Well I think I wa...

How can I convince myself he's not cheating or should I just end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - help sum1 plz i dont know what to do i wrote to you the other day about my partner cheating on me with who was ment to be his ex but wasnt and theyve been together for 7 years never broke up yet he was seeing me at the same time and living together ...

I love someone who hates me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

9 December 2008 (M) - i love someone who hates me. i met her six months back. ironically she is one of the best friends of my best friend. she was in a relationship at that point of time. but she was not happy with the way her realtion was going. she would tell me that ...

Is 12 sexual partners considered slutty?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

9 December 2008 (M) - I've just starting going out with a great girl, we are both 22, but recently found out that she has had 12 sexual partners, I didn't take the news well, she has only had 1 one night stand in her past but I am still concerned that she sounds slutty ...

Is my boyfriend hooked on his ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5821 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - I've been with my dream guy that i've loved for 5 years for 8 monthes now. he has an ex of 2 and a half years and it seems like he's still hooked on her. she sent him through the court system and now she's trying to wreck us. he always tells me he ...

I've been crying my eyes out because I can't think of any other way to get him out of my head. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - So basically.. my boyfriend (now my ex) and I broke up a couple weeks ago. We both decided it would be best for us to let things go, and accept the fact that we shouldn't be together. We were together for about 3 years, and during the middle of our ...

I feel like he's cheating or possibly does not want a relationship any more.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5832 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - I'm 22 years old and I have recently started a new relationship with a 25 year old guy. We have been dating for five months now, and the relationship is starting to change to the point where I am starting to question staying with him. I vowed that I ...

My girlfriend acts snobbishly since she got the leading role in the school play!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

9 December 2008 (?) - My girlfriend (of a year) got in the school play and got the lead. Don't get wrong me I'm really happy for her and she did work really hard for it. But she's acting like a total snob (thats just a nice way to put it) ever since she got the part. ...

What to get my 22-year-old girlfriend for Christmas?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

9 December 2008 (M) - christmas is coming, and i can't think of what to get my girlfriend. we have been dating for fifteen months, we are 22 years old, and we live together. i have done a great job with gifts in the past, for last christmas, valentine's day,...

Define flirting!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

9 December 2008 (M) - What is flirting? I am 16 and have a 15 year old gf. She spends most of her waking hours calling me on the phone and at school devotes as much time to being with me as possible. But there are some things that bother me. For instance about two weeks ...

Moody boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months and recently he has been getting really stressy with me even when I don't do anything, is he going off me? ...

Have I scared her off for good having disclosed my feelings to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5833 days ago

9 December 2008 (M) - Hi. I was just wondering whether, after initially rejecting a guy's advances, a woman has then gone on to see him in a 'new light' and then decided to eventually take him up on his offer. So basically my question is, if a man asks a woman out and is ...

What does he really want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - So I've had this Friend with benefits thing with a guy for almost 4 months and I'm confused by what he really wants. I'm a single, never married 29 yr old mother to one 4 yr old. He's 33 yr old recently divorced father of 3 young kids (ages 1, 4 and ...

I love him but...........

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend was just sitting at home one night. He was texting his friend and asked him to send him a picture of a naked girl that he had already glanced at because his friend was talking to her. He sent it to him and he saved it to his phone! ...

Soul mates... or being played?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5832 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - hello I met my boyfriend online about a month ago. We are so into each other we are already talking about getting married! There is a problem though, my boyfriend is the ex roomate of my ex boyfriend he says it was just a coinsidence but I had my d...

We only have alone time at school, when our friends butt in. Any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - My best friend has a massive chrush on my boyfriend, at first we all had a chrush on him, but he chose me. My mum is strict about dating so the only oppurtunity for us to have alone time is at school. But when we try to be alone she's always there ...

She wants me then she doesn't! Why does she keep doing this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

9 December 2008 (?) - I'm 14 and I have a girlfriend, we've been going out for a long time and we were at the movies so we made out. But whenever we started making out, within seconds she would push me off and turn away like she didn't want to any more. Then a couple ...

As a 9th grader do you think that I should be nervous to reveal myself or I should feel normal.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5833 days ago

9 December 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm 14, and in a serious relationship that I think may become sexual with this girl. However my penis is only 5 inches and I am not very hairy there yet? As a 9th grader do you think that I should be nervous to reveal myself or I should feel ...

Did it bother her that I spoke to her boyfriend and not her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5788 days ago

9 December 2008 (M) - I was dating this girl from work and I fell in love with her... I realized later that she had used me as a rebound guy.... I completely stopped talking to her and I've noticed that it bothered her.. at this point I still can't seem to talk to her... ...

Why are white men always falling for white women and not me, the Puerto Rican?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - Hello dear cupiders, I am puerto rican. shoulder length cruley brown hair/ very tan skin/ reg. brown eyes/ short/ I believe I'm attractive I give myself a 7 1/2 out of 10. I am attracted primary to 'white' men. (Not that I'm racist or anyth...

What does he mean by "I need a break for now"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - I am the nicest girl, you will ever meet. But I have a weakness for the men that hurt me the most. There is a guy that I have been talking to, and I like him. He hasn't called me for a week and he texted me to tell me he needs a break, but he didn'...

Should I/how do I break up with a guy I'm just not compatible with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5788 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - I just started going out with my first boyfriend. He's nice enough but on the third date I realized 1)I don't find him attractive 2)we don't have important interests, life views, or goals, in common. He's completely different from me in ...