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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i've been textin this girl for nearly 2 months now and i really like her alot. but im not realy sure if she likes me. a few weeks after i was textin her i asked her did i have a chance and she said i would have if it was a while longer, because she had just broken up with her boyfriend. its been nearly 2 months now and we've been out to the cinema and watched movies in her house and even cuddled up while watching them. I havent given up and im planning on doing something nice for christmas with her..but can anyone tell me am i wasting time? should i keep trying?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008): Hi there...
As a female myself I'd say you're definitely in with a chance with this girl. You got to understand that she's getting over a break-up, but if she's been spending time with you in the past two months, then that proves she's interested... If she didn't want to be with you she would be "busy" every time you suggested the cinema or a dvd.
Hang in there mate, and good luck. Just be patient!
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reader, Stayc63088  +, writes (15 December 2008):
 It depends on how long or how significant her last boyfriend was. Right now she may just need a friend. Since it has been 2 months since you last asked her, just ask again how she is feeling about dating you. If she is still not over it, be there for her, but date other people as well. Don't put your everything into waiting for someone when she is not sure how she feels. When I broke up with my boyfriend I talked to a guy, I wanted to just be friends for awhile because I wasn't over my boyfriend yet. He kept pushing me for a relationship to the point where I just needed to stop talking to him because I wasn't ready yet. If he had waited and just been there for me as a friend we could possibly be together now. It doesn't sound like this girl is using you as a rebound relationship so that's good. Ask her again how she feels and leave it alone if she says no. It is up to you if you want to wait or not, just don't push her into anything she doesn't want right now. Good luck.
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