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writes:Hi. I recently started dating a guy - we've been together for about 4 weeks but live really close to each other so have been seeing a lot of each other. I go to his and he makes me dinner and we spend whole days just visiting places and getting lunch together. We've become quite close, and we were close friends before hand but now Christmas is here we've both gone home to spend the peiod with our families which are literally at the opposite ends of the country. Im finding I'm missing him a lot but don't want to appear clingy. What do I do?
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (15 December 2008):
 I feel for you my fella is in the army he is away for weeks at a time and next year will be in afghanistan for 7 months. Missing someone when you love them so much is a nightmare but we txt call email even chat online its not clingy and doesnt make you desperate just shows you miss someone and when your in love you cant help it. Just remeber its not forever and theres nothing like the first kiss after not seeing someone for ages.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (15 December 2008):
 Keep in touch by phone, ask when he's coming back to you and maybe you could make up for Christmas, make him a New Years dinner at your place to make up for missing him at Christmas. He may be flattered by that. Hopefully next year you may go with him, or he with you to your family together for Christmas. hope this helps.
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reader, samsmommy  +, writes (15 December 2008):
 You could call, txt, email etc. He probably misses you too, and one phone call isn't going to make you look clingy so I would just call him. Hope I helped.
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