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female
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30-35,
*urplecloud03
writes: I've been seeing this guy for about a month now and we arent bf/gf because ive just come out of a 2 year relationship (my first long term one if you can call it long term) and this new guy is amazing. but the problem is that he told me that only 2 girls have ever made him cum from oral sex. he is 22 and has lets say plenty of experience so i didnt expect to get him to finish by doing it. anyways so i am yet to get him to finish during oral but i feel inadequate because i cant. i spend along time down there and he says he gets like just to the point but then loses it. Well we had sex for the first time together a few days ago and im not on the pill so i obviously made him wear a condom and after he told me that only one other girl has ever made him cum with a condom on. So hearing this puts the pressure on me to perform that well again and get him to finish again but no matter how long we went for he just couldnt finish. is there anything i can do to help him along or is this just the way he is gonna be? We are talking about getting together as in a relationship in a few months (just to give me a break after being in a relationship before i rush into something else)
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reader, lawllersk4tes +, writes (15 December 2008):
As far as i can tell its all his problem not much you can do here.Personally i have never had any problems in that area,ever think maybe hes not completely telling the truth because he doesn't want to wear a condom.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008): As far as i can tell its all his problem not much you can do here.Personally i have never had any problems in that area,ever think maybe hes not completely telling the truth because he doesn't want to wear a condom.
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