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Archived questions from: 21 December, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I'm getting sick of his porn/masturbation addiction!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend likes to masterbait alot!!! When I ask if its me he says no....We have been together for almost 4 years I thought our relationship was fine but I seem to always find porn sites.....I was thinking that he was addicted to porn but I just ...

Should I have kept quiet about the one night stand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

21 December 2008 (M) - My girlfriend asked me the other day if i'd ever had a one night stand the other day and i admitted that i had thinking that teeling the truth is always the best (and not thinking very much at all as well - it just came out). She siad she didnt ...

My boyfriend and I got in an argument and now he won't respond to me!

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21 December 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, i really need your help, it was recently my boyfriends birthday we went out and he constantly told me he loved me like he always does, we were very sreious about eachother he told me i was the only one for him but the next day i went to ...

Can I keep this a secret and still be a good girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - Please try not to judge me. This is my first relationship and I've made tons of mistakes. We've been together for two years and almost 4 months, and I love him. He is the jealous type. He has issues with my past. My past is not at all crazy, but w...

My boyfriend's Christmas present?? - 20 years old.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - Hi. This is very last minute but I don't know what else to get my boyfriend for Christmas. We've been dating for a long time, and we have been talking about taking the next step and getting engaged. We live together and we are both 20 years old. A ...

We finally become initimate and I want to throw it all away for no reason, why am I like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - I have a problem with staying with people after we become intimate. I met this guy and he is really cute and nice and everything that I say I want and we finally become initimate and I want to throw it all away for no reason, everything was great, ...

Do men ever leave a relationship for reasons other than having met someone else?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - Do men ever leave a relationship for reasons other than having met someone else? My boyfriend left me without giving me a reason, and my mind is going crazy. We weren't fighting or anything like that, as a matter of fact I thought we got along ...

Am I overreacting? How do I stop doubting her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

21 December 2008 (M) - Okay, so I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 11 months now, and she is the best and longest girlfriend I have ever had. She is the first girl I have really loved. We both go to the same University, have the same major and live in the same...

Should I be concerned that he doesn't like me any more, or that he just doesn't want to be with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5816 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - The guy I'm seeing, went shopping with this girl who is in fact going with another girl, but when they got back from shopping she tried it on with him, he said that nothing happened and all that did happen was that she just sat on him, apparently ...

I had sex in the heat of the moment with my best friend but I have a boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - I am seventeen years old and I'm in a healthy relationship with my boyfriend. However, at a party one night, me and my best friends brother (age 24) decided to have in the heat of the moment sex. Now I'm worried if my boyfriend finds out he'll dump ...

It's 4 days till christmas, and I have no idea what to get my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - Hey. Ok, I have a problem. It's 4 days till christmas, and I have no idea what to get my boyfriend! We've been dating for over 3 months now and we love each other The only problem is, I know he's bought me a lot of things! I've got him COB...

Should I let her go even though I love her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

21 December 2008 (M) - When you love a girl and you think she likes you (Or thats what the signals seem to be when im with her). She speaks to you in person but not via phone, email or SMS and when you see her in person it's only with her friends. I really love her and ...

He doesn't want to tempt the friendship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5819 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - i have a bisexual guy best friend. he says im amazing but doesnt want to tempt the friendship..even tho he used to have a massive crush on me he sends me mixed signals..for example on friday we went for lunch then out that night ..he came ove...

Is she lying to me about this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

21 December 2008 (M) - Is she lying to me? I sugested to my girlfriend to experience anal sex and she accepted. That was about 48 times ago (an average of one per month) and she still insists it is painful to her. I don't understand why since I feel no resistance during ...

Will this awkward aura keep us apart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

21 December 2008 (M) - Well guys, i really need you help on this one. So there is this girl that i really like and i somehow get a feeling that she likes me back, however this IS just a feeling. but anyways we get along fine when were alone together (this isn't a lo...

Can someone tell me what he wants?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - We started dating and everything was fine until we had sex for about 2 months and next thing i know he says he just wants to be friends but he still acts the same but we aren't having sex anymore. Soo I don't know what he wants? We also work at the ...

How can I be single and happy??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - Hello, Basically I want to have a boyfriend, but at the same time, I really just want to stay single and be happy. I hate the fact that I can't get one, which is why I want to learn to accept the fact that I will be staying single for a while. I m...

How can it work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - How can a relationship of a 9 years age difference work? I really like this guy (older), but it would obviously be against the law to date him now. Somehow my parents managed it (13 year age difference), but they met at work when they were both l...

My family doesn't approve of current boyfriend but approves of ex and I'm confused about who to choose!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - i'm from an asian background (mauritian) and is a fact that mauritians marry or go out with mauritians, however i thought i was the different one and i'm going with someone who is black and my mother doesn't approve. He's a nice guy and everyone ...

Time to make it up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

21 December 2008 (M) - I saw a girl for two years, then I find out she is seeing someone else. I’m hurt but walk away wishing all the best with meaning. It hurt me but remained calm and asked no questions. I aimed for a friendship. We all work in the same building. I ...

Confused about his actions

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5814 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - There's this guy i really like and he is always acting weird when my sisters friend is around and its just really annoying when he hardly talks to me when this guy is around he says he loves me and he wants to be with me but still its just lik eerrr ...

He's acting different is something wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - Im confused about my boyfriend, I dont know what to do...I have this feeling...my chest hurts...I think somethings wrong with us on Thursday I was sitting beside him while he was on his laptop. some girl got on MSN and messaged him saying 'I th...

Why am I always rejected?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - does any thinks this is unfair guys rejected me and hate me all the time.they guys who rejected me always find a girlfriend even if a few months.but me i get nothing only yet another broken and cold rejection.and only good things happen to nasty ...

Should I tell him I don't like the promise ring?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been together for like 3 years and we are in college (2 different ones but its going good and I am planning to transfer to his school in the fall) We have talked about getting married but decided to wait and get engaged ...

I can't get closure in this relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - I recently became involved with a guy that I was at college with 3 years ago. When we got back in contact several months ago, we became very close and he admitted that he had strong feelings for me when we knew each other before, and that these ...

I'm the adventurous type and he sits at home surfing the Web and also drinks, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - I am a 42 yr old female and I know it sounds funny but I am very confused about what I want to do .I am seeing this man that is very sweet but he has a problem with drinking .When he drinks it is very scary .I love him but I dont however wish to ...

How do I get my boyfriend to plan in advance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5821 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year now. The only problem that I have with him is that he never seem able to plan anything ahead. I would ask him if he has plan for the weekend? he would tell me no but he wouldn't tell me that we ...

Did declaring my feelings scare him off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - I've been talking/texting this guy for almost 3 months. We've been taking it slow, and for the past month that we've been apart realize how much we miss each other and want to be together. So he calls me, and tells me how he thinks of me all the ...

What should I do if I still want him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - I dated a guy through all through high school and 2 years of college and he was the first guy I was ever with. We only broke up because the relationship wasn't working long distance (we went to different colleges) and I believe we would have stayed ...

How can I get him to accept the watch?

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21 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of two years broke up recently. I ask him to gave me back the watch that I gave him for his birthday. At first, he didn't want to but then he gave it back to me. We've made up and I gave him back the watch but he didn't want it now. ...

Does it mean he wants me to kiss him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5821 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - Dear cupid. there is a senior that likes me a-lot my highshcool. he had told people he slept with, me and my friend sent him a message asking him if it was true. he hasnt replied back,and im worried now is to if he hates me or not. i hope not becu...

Do you think he's ready for a new relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - Earlier this year,this guy i knew in person a long time ago,and have recently got back intouch with online,asked to see more photos of me,as he didnt recognise me,since we hadnt seen each other for a long time,and only knew each other abit in person ...

Will he judge my body if we have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5821 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - i want to have sex with my boyfriend but i'm a little worried that he won't like the way my body looks. what should i do?...

Do girls think about guys that much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

21 December 2008 (M) - A few days ago I took a sharpie and put a tally on my arm each time i thought of the girl that i love. It came to around to about 300 times in about 10 hours. I want to know, do girls think about guys that much, or am i just insane? I mean thinkin...

I need sex tips!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5821 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - hi im 35 and have started a relationship and the sex is good but im not very experiaced and my partner keeps asking me to go on top off him during sex but i dont know what to do in that position ive never been on top b4 during sex and im embarrased ...

Are these symptoms of being abused?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5821 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - i don't know what to do. this is confusing and i dont even know but i need some support from people so I dont feel bad. It is such a long story but i'll make it short. my ex will not get rid of his ex. I think has abused me financially, sex...

How can I get them to accept me and not see me as a bad person?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5821 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend had been together now for 2 years and we have a 4 month old baby. we are currently living in his family's house it's quite big so they decided to move us in since they will be supporting us financially. his family doesn't ...

How do I get him to view me as more than a friend?

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21 December 2008 (F) - So, I have been friends with this guy for approximately 6 or 7 months. Up until Halloween all we had was a strictly platonic relationship. I invited him over for a small get together on Halloween night and we ended up making out. Afterwards we still ...

I got emotionally attached and now I feel hurt and used!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - So i met a guy who has a girlfriend who is about 3 months pregnant. He started calling me alot always wanting to hang out. I hung out with him a few times and he was always trying to kiss me but i wouldent let him. I was not attracted to him and i ...

Is there the possibility of us ever dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

21 December 2008 (M) - can someone give me advice? a girl that i have been trying to get wit finally gave me her cell #. we would talk every now and then on the computer and her house phone, but the other nite she called me back from her cell phone and told me that she ...

How does he truly feel about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - This seems to be a common question, but there is this guy I really like, I even told him I like him and when I did he sounded really confused. You see the thing is, he has a Girlfriend. Apparently he liked me when I was still with my ex so I was l...

He wants to date other people but how can I keep him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5788 days ago

21 December 2008 (M) - I am dating this guy, will I use the term 'dating' loosely. He wants to see other people, and scared of losing him altogether I agreed. Then at a celebration we both went to we told each other that we loved each other, but we were drunk and said i...

What should I do to take things further?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5821 days ago

21 December 2008 (M) - alot of the time when me and my gf are watch a movie or watching videos on her computer she will put her hand on me leg and move it closer and closer toward my fun zone then i get a orgasm but then nothing really happens afer that what should i do? ...

Is every man like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - hi i been having alot relationship problems with my boyfriend. i don't know where to start, i with him 2 years. and from day one, woman been in our relationship his ex, her ringing him just friends,. that fine then at job he texing girls from his ...

Does he like me? Please help.

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21 December 2008 (F) - Sorry to bother you again lol :) What it is I really like this boy and would love to know if he likes me. Some things he does makes me think oh yeah he does and next I think ooh no he doesnt i'll tel you some things he does and you can tell me what ...