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male
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41-50,
*oddster_24
writes:dear ladies, For 7 months now I've been with my girlfriend, I'm very happy with her!!! We are close...... Just lately my attitude has changed towards her and I feel confused and lost as my love is still there for her... I spend three times a week seeing her!! We mostly have a good time, hugging and kissing, but this Saturday I asked her to come to my area for a change, she was reluctant to come and was puzzled as to why the sudden, now she's saying that I've changed when all I realy wanted was to see some effort from her like I've done so many time for her, she's not a selfish person and she did come in the end.... she's caring and if I admit a little insecure, she talks to me about everything but sometimes I clam up and can't tell her what's on my mind... then it builds up till I just explode and this is my only problum with myself. Is there a future for us togtherthanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008): If you know it turns out worse when you bottle it up, don't bottle it up! Get it out the way and tell her how you feel - it might be difficult the first time you do it, but once it's out of the way you'll find it easier to be open with her in future. I kind of know the feeling that you're the only one putting an effort it, it's frustrating I know. She must have seen how much it was bothering you if she came in the end. Ask her why she was uneasy. Explain you're not having a go at her, you just want to make it easier if you can =]
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