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Archived questions from: 22 December, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I'm falling hard and I've not been in contact with him, but nothing can come of this, right?

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22 December 2008 (F) - I have done something extremely stupid and now I don't really know what to do. A few months ago my mom died and I admit to being depressed, irrational and trying to find a fragment of myself. My friend got tired of me locking myself up in the house ...

He is always talking about sex, is that all he wants?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while now and all he ever talks about is sex. Am 15 and he is 17. Yes I know its a pretty large age gap. On msn he always says to me Shona .... would you ever do anal n am like no n he always asks me ...

What would guys rather have--babe or library type girl?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - are guys attracted to nice ,quiet ,shy ,innocent ,genuine ,safe,plain looking girls? would guys find girls like this boring because i am like this i am passed over for the babes who are loud,dress sexy and who are party girls. i want...

What if you can't be together because of circumstance? What are the options?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - If you can't be with someone for the moment due to circumstance, what can you do? Give up? I don't want to go on with life always wondering "what if." But if you're both going your separate ways in just a year, what else can you do? Make a vow to ...

Ideas for what to make my girl for X-mas

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22 December 2008 (M) - I need some ideas for what to make the girl in my life something for christmas. I want to make something cuz she likes things like that. I was hoping something a little bigger ad better than a card. Last time i did something i made her a message ...

Need advice! People tell me I'm doing the wrong thing

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - I'm 18 and have just got out a relationship in the past month. Recently, I have been seeing someone new, but he's 10 years older than me and is currently going through a divorce. People keep telling me I'm doing the wrong thing and that I'm just ...

Should I be accepting a gift like this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - I've known this guy for two wks. now. He's a great guy who is showing more and more interest with calls and text throughout the day. Overall, he makes time for me. Anyways, I know X-mas is just around the corner..he asks what I wanted? I said ...

How do I get over bad trust issues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - Ok. This is a long one. I am a 20 year old girl, in a 2.5 relationship with my boyfriend. We have lived together for 10 months, and it has been going alright. I have severe trust issues, however I am working very hard on them. My boyfriend kissed ...

I shouldn't stay when he deserves to have someone who is in love with him, right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - okay here it is .. basically me and my current boyfriend have been together (for two years on new years day..so comming up) ..around may i told him i wasn't in love with him any more ..after that i left,and did my own thing kinda ..and he said he ...

Does this seem like a one-sided relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - is it bad when you were hanging out with someone for about a month or more, and you hung out at least once or twice a week...sometimes more and then you hang out once one week( being last week, monday-tuesday morning) and dont talk until today, ...

Christmas present ideas for an 18 year old boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - Christmas present idea for 18 year-old boyfriend? We've been dating for almost 1 year. I love him with all my heart and we hope to get marry one day after we get our degrees in universty (We are probably going to the same one). It's almost Chri...

My boyfriend gets an erection every time we hug

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is 18. I'm the same age. Whenever we hug, I feel his erection. And when I look at him he says 'Sorry'. (It's cute. Lol) I know that it's not his fault.. But I was just thinking that perhaps there's a way to get rid of this? It's really ...

Boyfriend spending all his time playing poker!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5819 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - Ok I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months now. Well about a week ago I had a family emergency and he took me to my families house so I could be with them. Later that night he texted me and said he was going out with a guy friend which I was fine ...

Girlfriend loves me not interest in sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

22 December 2008 (M) - hi my girlfriend loves me but has no interest in sex what can i do to solve it...

What do skinny girls have over fat girls? Need guys opinion

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - hello ! Do Guys Actually Pay More Attention to Girls Looks ? 90% of men go for skinny girls with nice looks so guys answer one question what do skinny girls have what big girls dont ??...

Do I try to explain? Or just let it go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

22 December 2008 (M) - a few months ago started chatting to a lass online, we got on well and chatted for ages, had some problems in my life occur in this time and had too much going on in my head, so i tried to scare her away thinking i was obsessive, it worked she ...

He's nice and all, but I am just not all that into him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - Okay, first of all i'll point out that I KNOW i've done something stupid, just so nobody else has to point it out. At the beginning of last year I started seeing a guy I really liked. It went on for 8 months, a few bumps along the way. We decided ...

Why is it so unfair? Why do I get treated so badly?

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - does any thinks this is unfair?? guys reject me and hate me all the time.The guys who reject me always find a NEW girlfriend and NEW JOB even if a few months! but me i get nothing only yet another broken and cold rejection and only good things...

How to get a girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - Im 17 and i want to experience sex with a girl. I life in a small town. Any tips on how to get i girl? None of my friends are interested in trying this. Any tips? ...

Ladies: How would you feel if the guy you picked up had only one testicle?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

22 December 2008 (M) - I only have one testicle. I have had girlfriends in the past; but I was wondering how a girl would react if it were a more casual. If you don't already have an emotional attachment to him, how would you react if you found out a guy that you pick...

Is he justified in making my life hell because he 'loves' me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - Well theres this guy I work with hes 30, I'm 19, was 18 at the time. He kinda manipulated me into a 'relationship', making me feel sorry for him, etc. He used to accuse me of sleeping with guys, having AIDs,go through my bag and my phone, he was ...

How can I get my mind right and not mess this up? He's the most handsome, charismatic man!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - I just started dating, I believe, the most handsome, charismatic and fun loving guy I've ever met. I think he's wonderful and he says the same thing about myself also. Up until very recently upon realizing what may actually come of us (which is the ...

Should I ask him out or wait until he asks me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5818 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - will i like this one dude and i think he likes me and i was talking to his sister one day and she said that he said he liked me but he liked brit a litle more than me but she doesn't like him should i ask him out or wait until he ask me?...

Threesome Question: will he fall for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend wants to have a threesome, and I am completely for the idea- it sounds like fun, and I've always been down for it. I love him, he loves me, and we both want this. The problem is who to have it with. He wants to get a friend of his ...

Is he falling out of love with me? The passion is dying...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5819 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is slowly letting the passion die when we have sex.....He doesnt seem to kiss me like he use to during but he still shows effection everyday....We have been together for awhile and I just dont want to be one of those couples that things ...

He hasn't told his parents about us. Should I let him do it in his own time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend wont tell his parents we are dating! We have been dating for 5 months. My boyfriends parents hate me. let me explain about it. About 2 years ago we were engaged to be married. i was going through alot. I had joined the military and...

What should I do about this guy I like? It's bugging me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5818 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - Theres a guy i like he knows i like him, he says he likes me too. he act normal when a certain guy isnt around but when that gu is around he doesn't pay much attention to me and its really bugging me and i dont know what to do. when im with h...

He said he has to 'hook up' with another girl in order to be with me? Is he right?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - okay i am in desperate need of help. I fell madly in love with my current boyfriend almost two years ago in high school. we first became friends, and on my birthday he asked to be his girlfriend. i was the happiest girl alive for months, it was ...

Should I ask if he wants to hang out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5818 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - alright well there was this guy that i was seeing and he said he would call me when he was back in town and never did, this was a few weeks ago, i sent him a message asking for a friends info because he was the only one who had it, and he knows it...

Can you tell me if he likes me based on this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - Can anyone give me thier opinion if the guy i like, likes me back or not. I've worked with him for about a year now. We are the youngest people in our department and hes always joking around with everyone else but when he sees me or talks to me he ...

Do I have a future with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - Hello and thank you very much in advance for read my letter, my boyfriend, who is everything to me, is giving me mixed signals, we have been together for 10 months, we have had our ups and downs, but we always work it, we really get along really ...

Can I continue on in a relationship with a guilty conscience?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5791 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - I've met my current partner few months ago over the internet. I was far from a happy person at the time, I was shortly after being rejected by someone I was courting and all in all it everything was going just... plain bad. I wasn't even considering ...

No more Mommy Dearest!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

22 December 2008 (M) - I've been in a relationship 19 years. My partner is 11 yrs younger than I am. How important is participating in home activities, ie, know which light switch is which; know in which cabinet the glasses are kept; picking up after yourself and even ...

My life seems run by his ex's demands!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - I have been living with my boyfriend for 6 months now and known him for several years, he has a child with another woman who is now 6 years old. He rarely has contact with him one or two times a month, we have had him to stay twice in the time i ...

Why won't he acknowledge me as his girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - I have been going out with this awesome guy for near two years and we adore each other. He constantly tells me he misses me if we don't see each other for a few days, he makes me meals, he takes me to places I've never been before and he's ...

Is he too short for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - i know it is kind of snobby to be picky about guys outer appearance, but i cant get over how short he is! i really like his personality and his looks, but he is way shorter than me. WAY. like i am 5'4 and he is 5'. i dont want to sound like a jerk, ...

Do you think by chance he is doing something deceitful behind my back by acting so disrespectful towards me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - Hey everyone. I have a problem. I am in a 2.5 year with my boyfriend, and we both love each other very much. We live together, and have for about 6 or 7 months. But today (and today only) we got in a few arguments, where he told me to "fuck off"...