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female
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30-35,
*t1213
writes:In middle school, I met my best friend. The problem was, I never saw him as just that. We "dated" for like two months when I was 13. Obviously it wasn't serious though because I was so young. Yet when I broke up with him, I realized that I was in love. He refused to take me back. It hurt me so bad, but basically I got what I deserved for ending our relationship. For the next 3 years I grew closer and closer with him, basically acting like I was his girlfriend. All of our friends pretty much classified us as being together but it wasn't official and he had no interest in making it that way. For his birthday I would call him at exactly 12. I'd buy him ridiculously expensive gifts for christmas and I would show up at his house right away when he told me that he missed me. Eventually it all bottled up inside of me and I had to get it out, so I told him how I felt. He told me that he would try dating me in that case because he never realized that he meant so much to me. But the first few months were a little wierd, I could tell that he still had no interest in me.. he just didnt wanna dump me because now he knew that I was in love with him. To this day, it's been almost a year and we are still together. We hang out every weekend and we talk on the phone or text every single day. He always is telling me how beautiful I am and how much he's in love with me and wants to marry me when we get older. All of this is really like a dream come true for me but I still find myself wondering if he actually fell in love because he surely wasn't before? ugh, I just want to know if what he is saying to me is really true. Could he possibly mean all of that after not wanting to be with me for like 2 years straight? please tell me what you think!
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reader, ReachForTheSky +, writes (15 December 2008):
 It could be true. Maybe he realized your good qualities after all, it just took some time. Falling in love isnt something that happens in the blink of an eye (and when it does, it usually doesnt last long.) If you want any kind of good relationship, you have to trust him, and vice versa. You doubting if what he's saying is true isnt a good start. Trust me, been there, done that. Don't be surprised if you don't end up marrying him. I didn't marry my guy (and im glad i didnt) of course it could be different for you. But you have time to worry about that later. Just relax, have fun, and don't do anything you'll know you'll regret later. Best Wishes!-Reach For The Sky
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