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Archived questions from: 8 December, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Does he like me or is it all in my head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5820 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - Ok so I have a problem. I like a guy I work with and I don't know but I think he likes me too. He always stares and he smiles and he has made up a nickname for me about something no one ever notices. We are always together and we always play fig...

Is it normal to fantasise about girls while masturbating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - ok this is gonna sound really weird, but when I masturbate, or get in the mood to masturbate, I think about girls, and what they'll do to me etc. I have a boyfriend and am extremely happy when we are together and are being sexual. Is this weird?????...

Risk a friendship for a 1% chance of more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5829 days ago

8 December 2008 (M) - HI, I've kinds asked this before but only got one response and things have changed: I was seeing a woman 8 years my senior (I'm 28 she's 36) for 7 months earlier this year. I was in an abusive relationship at the time which I left in August. We go...

Why does sex with my boyfriend always hurt to begin with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 10 months now. We have had sex together almost every time we hang out. Which is roughly 4/7 days. I am on the pill. Every time we have sex the beginning part always hurts for like 5 minutes. Then ...

I need to know how to talk to him without him thinking I'm stupid.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5832 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - hi, so here's my problem, im usually not a easy girl and i never thought this would ever happen to me, but at this party, i started talking to this guy i thought was cute, and i was really drunk and so was he and somehow, we started making out, and ...

She doesn't talk to me at all since the return of the abusive ex, what is she thinking, I wonder?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

8 December 2008 (M) - I was seeing a women for about 4 months and feel in love with her, shes in her late 30' and has 2 kids, the trouble is the father of the youngest one was very violent with her during and after the affair, he told her that if she ever meet someone ...

Is this kind of behavior acceptable in a serious relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - my boyfriend went out for his guys night out, but I looked at his tex messages and found out that he invited over one of his female friends an later he tex her again saying that saw her at the bar make him nervous like a little kid, I guess he was ...

Can a man really be that forgetful and inconsiderate with someones feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - What should I do? I feel so embarrassed by allowing myself to be taken in by this guy. I am in love with a guy who I know is probably just messing me around. He phones me from time to time (when he wants something), when we meet up - he only eve...

I need help decoding a man!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - Ok.. So theres this boy, he is 22 and i am 19. We have known each other for about 2 yrs now. I need advice, he is soo confusing. We have been on and off for those 2 yrs. He has told me he really likes me and i have told him too. Once we had like 5 ...

I'm having a hard time not getting upset over his online flirting.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - theres this guy i have been with for 13 years, and i really love him. We are having problems right now and I really want things to work out with us. He Flirts alot online! and it drives me crazy. He lies about everything, to the girls he flirts ...

How can I find out if she's cheating on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

8 December 2008 (M) - I think my girlfriend is cheating on me she tells me she doesn't want sex as much because we are not all about that, I ask her what she's doing quite a lot and she says "why do you always need to know what I'm doing?" I've asked her quite a few ti...

Why do I keep thinking about him after splitting up 7 months ago?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5833 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - It's been about 7 months since me and my bf (who I had been dating for only 2 months) split. He ended up moving away and it pretty much ended there. I still can't stop thinking about him, and it really bothers me because I'm a very attractive girl ...

Can Men really change their faults?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - I have a question for the Men. If you found the right girl for you, could her love and support make you change to live up to your potential? Or should you accept them exactly the way you found them even though you know... and they know they cou...

We always argue over the silliest things... why?

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8 December 2008 (F) - Well, I have been with my boyfriend for a while now and we are sort if a strong couple. The thing is we always argue over silly things, for example. He stood outside his house for 5 mins with his ex so he says, If I dont meet him he will fall out...

WHY do men cheat on women???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

8 December 2008 (M) - I want to first say a big thanks to all the house members here, I think my problem is really getting to be solved soon.. My girl is now at the point of forgiving me, but still one more thing to get solved, I sent mail that I cheated on my girl, now ...

Who do I pick: the guy I'm dating and starting to like or the mean ex who apparently has changed??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - Hello. I just turned 21 and am stuck between two guys. The first one (A) and i were going out for 3 years. He took me for granted, was mean to me, didnt have a job, etc. We broke up and the day we broke up i found the second guy (B). He was ...

Is this too big of an age gap?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - Hi everybody, I met a guy who is older than me and we and thinking about getting into a relationship. I am 20 and he is 26. Is this age gap ok or is it too wide? Thanks for all your help. :)...

I'm starting to fall for him... what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - I'm a 36 year old just out of a long-term (13 years) relationship, but it's complicated as we're still living together with our toddler son as I'm at uni for the next year and seeing as we're best friends it is easy to stay in this situation. ...

What is my next step for this girl I like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

8 December 2008 (M) - I have been on a few dates with this girl and we have been talking for weeks. We started to get close and very much enjoyed spending our time together. I ended up spending the night last weekend. We did not do anything. The next day she was weird ...

I am perfectly satisfied being the mistriss and don't want to take him away from his wife.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - I am madli in love with a man. But he has family. He is a very responsible husband and a father. He also loves me very much. We have a great sex life.But he told me before starting that he is not powerfull to spoil his wife's life. I also feel the ...

Why hasn't he responded to my text?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5833 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - Hiya so i met this boy about a few months ago.. and he said i wish i had met you on a night out and i said why and he was like dont worry.. So anyway last week i bumped into him again at a nightclub, a bit later i saw him sitting down and he call...

We have been dating for a year, and still havent kissed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for over a year but we still haven't kissed! im ready anytime but i don't think he is. everyone says just wait and he will do it in his own time but i have been waiting for over a year... any ideas?...

He ignores me for several days after a date and then reinitiates contact

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5833 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - Hi All, Well I have been seeing a "nice" guy for about a month or so now. The problem is we will see each other and then when I initiate contact post date he ignores me! Then a few days later he pops up again. The obvious answer is that I a...

While I know it is none of my business, I am upset she slept with someone else when we separted temporarily

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

8 December 2008 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for about a year and half and, about two months ago I thought I fell out of love with her after moving to uni. To see if this was true I decided it was best we went on a break. She lives about four miles away in other ...

If he cares so much about me, why does he want to date other people?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - Hi please help me if you can, I am 43 and have been divorced for 3 years. Last year I met a man who was 40 and we were together for 8 months. Things between us ended when he admitted that he was still using the internet to meet other women and ...

Have I been lying to myself, thinking he was just a brother figure to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5833 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - I'm really confused at the moment and in need of advice. Sorry it's long. I've known this guy for... less than a year. I sort of knew of him for a while before we were formally introduced. Before then, I kind of had this crush from afar on him. At ...

Annoying boyfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5833 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and I love him to death. However, we tend to get into arguments when I am stressed out and have a lot of schoolwork or family issues. I dont like to confront the issue and just really want to get ...

Should I live my home town to be with my friend from another state?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - I feel so confused. I am in love with a friend who lives in a different state to me and he feels the same way for me. He keeps saying how he doesnt think he would ever be able to find another girl like me. The thing is though, i dont want to be in...

He wanted a "loose relationship" but now was a committed one, should I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - Hi All, I have been involved with this guy now for 3 months. He initially didnt want a committed relationship, he said he wanted a "loose relationship" and so we decided to be just friends. Now all of a sudden he wants me to be his girlfriend....

Was our date a failure or does he really want to see me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - Hello, please help me read this situation: I was on a date with htis guy saturday night. It was more likea friendly recoinnaissance, nothing sensual or romantic, just pally pally and witha bit of sublte flirting. Before meeting me up i felt ...

Is it possible there is still something between me and my ex, or am I thinking too much into it?

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8 December 2008 (F) - Me and my ex have been broken up for several months but still reamained friends, we had decided that we lost our relationship so why lose a friend as well. Over time we both started seeing other people but at one point we started talking about the ...

I'm 13 and want to date but parent will not let me. Are they afraid of me growing up?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - Im a 13yr old girl...and not allowed to date... I have once but my parents dont know about it. Are they just afraid that im growing up. They freaked out when i started my period... I havent had any contact with guy...close enough to touch....

My fiancee showed up when I was flirting a bit with my lesbian friend, what can I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

8 December 2008 (?) - I was at work when my friend (shes a lesbian and I also knew her since we both were 5) popped in to say happy brithday and to congardlate me getting merried (in 5 weeks). One thing lead to another and we started flirting a bit. When my fiance showed ...

Never been kissed and the guy I like doesn't want a girlfriend, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - Hey Im 14 and in year 8 and when i was in grade 6 someone started a rumor that i like girls (which i dont) and now im in yr 8 and i have never been kissed or had a boyfriend. A lot of my friends have. I like this boy and he is the Hot guy, a lot of...

I can't forget about a guy from where I used to live and had a dream about him!

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8 December 2008 (F) - Hello everyone! I'm not sure what to do exactly..I'm pretty confused. I know I'm ready to have a boyfriend but I'm just waiting for someone to come to me. Last night, I had a dream.....I visited the state I used to live in until 2006 and a boy I had ...

I am scared in case he is too big to suit my petite size! Am I exaggerating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - I've just started dating a new older guy. Everything is great so far. This weekend we were fooling around (clothes on) and I discovered that he has a really huge penis. I mean it felt really thick and really long, like 10 inches. I didn't think that ...

Do you think I appeared needy and what are the odds that we have another date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - We met last week. He came over to mine and stayed the night and the whole next day and left at 8pm the next night. We talked the next day online. I sent him about 4 messages over the course of a full week. He answered all of them. In one of those ...

He already trashed my reputation! Does he still want to go out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - ok, so i just recently found out that a senior at my highschool told people that he slept with me! i already no he likes me and i know that bye telling me and becuase of female intuiton. now when he sees me its like he looks at me but not at my ...

I like him but he won't ask me out, do I wait for him or take the other opportunity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - Ok I really really like this guy and I'm sure he likes me but he won't ask me out.his friends told me that he's making the transition from player and boy to manhood he also told me to patient. its hard because I'm starting to get to know this really ...

I have a relationship with my first cousin, we will have no kids and will not marry, your opinions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - I'm 50 now and 3-1/2 years ago I re-met my first cousin. We were around each other when we were very young only a few times because my uncle was in the military. I barely remembered him. When we reconnected, we were immediately best friends, ...

I just like to flirt and I think its fun being single.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

8 December 2008 (?) - I really dont know what to do. Someone please help me. Okay so I have a boyfriend. I met this other guy and have been flirting with him (online) he seems really nice and he wants to hang out. He even told me he wants to hook up. I at least wanna ...

Is it really just a ring and a piece of paper?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 18 months, and we adore eachother completely. He tells me he loves me everyday and I do him, and we talk about our future together and growing old and wrinkly together - he even told me I'm The One. However,...

I don't know if I want to start a life with him, if she is going to get in the way.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

8 December 2008 (F) - My boyrfriend and I have been together now for about five years, I am 24 and he is 25. We are pretty serious about eachother. Since he was 17 my boyfriend has been living with a woman named Claire. Claire, is his ex- girlfriends' mother. At first...