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Archived questions from: November, 2012 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

He got a stripper pregnant, and is staying with her but says he still loves me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

30 November 2012 (F) - My exboyfriend first cheated on me with a stripper, then lied to me saying that he longer had connections with her. Within 3 months the stripper is suppose to be pregnant with his child, and now it has been 5 months and she claims they are married. ...

What are my chances? I thought it was mutual love from the start. But is she having doubts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) - I met this girl a few months ago love at first site on both sides. She is still married and has a kid with this Guy. He lives in another state so I'm not worries but they saw each other a few weeks ago at their daughter's birthday party a...

Why don't I ever attract girls I want to spend time with? Could my personal issues be a reason some girls avoid me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) - I only attract the really weird and creepy ones that I don't find attractive. People have told me that I am really cute and that I can be a guy who girls are attracted to, but that's only a few of my friends because they're people I know and can ...

I really want to forgive him and move on but I can't trust him any more.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - Hi all, and thanks in advance for any advice you can give me. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and we are generally very happy. In general, it is a perfect relationship. Unfortunately, recently I found out that he slept with someo...

I'm pretty sure he cheated on me but he wont admit it, what do I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - I am married 24 years, and recently found out that my husband cheated on me, but he won't admit it. I have been going through treatments because I have cancer and he started a new job. Because of the chemo I was very sick and not thinking clearly so ...

Should I end our affair in person? Or is a goodbye text enough?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - I've decided that even tho I'm hopelessly in love with a guy I've been having an affair with, it's time to end it. He is married, and I know he's never gonna leave her, I'm just tired of holding my emotions inside, and waiting for him to be mine, ...

My boyfriend cheated...should I take him back?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4394 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - My boyfriend of 1 1/2 yrs has cheated on me with another woman that he said he knows for many years. He said is nothing serious, he helps her out when she needs him and he can count on one hand how many times he had sex with her while we been ...

I think my boyfriend has been fantasizing about a co-worker for some time.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - Hi, just wondering can anyone give me some advice or input into something I an dealing with. I think my boyfriend has been fantasizing about a co-worker for some time. I think when he was in bed with me he was also fantasizing about her. I am now ...

There's always rumors going around that my man is cheating

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - Am in a relationship fo 5years with th guy of th same age,we hav a 4year old baby gal and am nw 2months pregnant.the problem is thre always rumours of him n otha gals evn wen i caught him redhanded he said its bcoz he jst likes jokes..nw he insults ...

My husband cheated, the marriage is over but I'm afraid to end it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4394 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - Dear cupid My husband had cheated on me in the past a few times i for gave him and we have tried to put it behind us. His affairs went on all though our marriage until he got caught,(20 yrs) no doubt he would still be cheating if he had not been...

I slept with my boyfriends friend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4392 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - Hi, So this may be a bit long, sorry for that. Basically I was with a friends with benefits for a couple of months, but I knew it wasn't going any where. So I went on a dating site just to see if there would be anyone. Fortunately there was. I b...

How do I get over this cheating guy? He's just found out his ex is pregnant.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - Ok soo I have this really huge crush on a senior nd well we've been talking nd been friends for about a year now ok Hey asked me out over the summer but I said I wasn't ready I then asked him when I was ready. He said I'm not ready I'm starting...

Read sexual texts from my girlfriend to another girl, should I forgive her or breakup?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - Please guide me with ur answers. N forgive me for the length. My gf and I are lesbians in a long distance relationship separated by an hour n a half. Newayz I noticed some changes in my gf and how she began to treat me. She stop texting sexual and ...

Do I tell my friends fiancee she's being cheated on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - I've recently found out that my friend is cheating on his fiancee. It wasn't a drunken one night stand either. He's been meeting up with this girl for quite some time now behind her back. I don't know his fiancee, but since i've found out, should I ...

Cheating father--do I tell my mother?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - I am 25 and live at home with my parents. My father has always been somewhat "shady". He stays out u till late many nights and him and my mother have had argued on and off for many years. When they are going through a "fighting stage" (usually after ...

I don't know what to do to make things better between us!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

26 November 2012 (M) - I met my girlfriend 3 years ago, I fell in love with her and made a bond. I live with her away from my own family, in the 2 years of dating we had our troubles in the relationship. She met this guy on facebook who dated my couise.He told my couise ...

His ex attends the holiday gatherings with his family, isn't this disrespectful to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - So I began a relationship with a guy that ive known for many years.Early in the relationship we moved in together and I started having second thoughts.So I told him him we were done.I regret it but I spent the weekend with my ex and yes I had sex ...

Why would a girl cheat on her boyfriend after telling him they should wait to have sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

26 November 2012 (M) - My friend started dating a girl at the beginning of the relationship they both agreed to wait until they have sex. However, the girl did a 180 and had sex with a lot of other guys behind his back while seemingly being chaste. I want to know why...

What were his motives? Why did my ex ask me out, thinking I had a new Bf? But then get all upset after he realised I wasn't dating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - My ex boyfriend started texting me last week. He thought I was still seeing someone but when he mentioned it I replied saying that I wasn't. Well it turns out he never got that text and asked me out anyway thinking I still had a boyfriend. Wel...

Was it acceptable for my boyfriend to be on a dating site?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

24 November 2012 (F) - My friend found my boyfriend on a dating site so I dumped him. He didn't care that I was upset, he didn't try to prove it wasn't him just said I should believe him. He got angry with me and called me an ugly fat c***t, so in a temper went out on a ...

She says there is no love for me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 November 2012 (M) - so where to begin. my wife and i have been together for 5 years married 10 years together. we have 2 children together. we have struggled for years. it all started we had our first child when we were young she was 18 and blames me for taking aw...

Do I keep saying no or give him another chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 November 2012 (F) - Hi. Me and my ex split just over a year ago, i left him and took our daughter, i couldn't handle his lies, and drink problem. We'd been together for over 4 years. Im dating other men now, he dated a lady but heard he messed that up too. He goes ...

Our relationship is in crisis. Can you please help me with advice, before I make a mistake?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 November 2012 (M) - So I met this girl freshmen year of college and she's perfect. Everything I want, beautiful smart, and kind of goofy like myself. I spoiled this girl, not like buying her things, but I rubbed her back, told her she was pretty everyday, basicall...

I'm in a unhappy marriage, and I've fallen for a man I met online.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

23 November 2012 (F) - Hi. I am in a mess of a situation. I am a married woman of five years and I have 2 children. I'm 26 years old. I have been with my husband for 10 years total. He was my first and only boyfriend and my first and only for everything. Since the ...

How do I overcome these bad thoughts that pop into my head about her past actions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

21 November 2012 (M) - Hi, I am currently dating my gf of 7 months. She cheated on her last bf of a few years and that relationship ended mostly due to that. Shortly after she remained in contact with the guy she cheated on her ex wit and had given her virginity to this ...

Why do I keep taking him back when he cheats and is both verbally and physically abusive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

21 November 2012 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 2years now when we started dating we were so inlove and to me were the perfect couple, until 8months ago he cheating on me and he would do things publicly knowing very well I would find out, he would beg 4m to take ...

He's still with the other girl. I told him I can't be with him if he's still with her. Should I stick to my words?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

21 November 2012 (F) - hey everyone.. i recently started seeing my ex boyfriend again.he has been dating another girl since the breakup he said that things have not been good with them for a long time and that he want's to breakup with her but he doesn't know how to gent...

Is it common for people to be in a relationship and signed up to online dating sites?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

20 November 2012 (F) - I have noticed this kind of question comes up a lot on this website. Is it very common for people to be signed up to dating websites whilst in a relationship. I have found my boyfriend to be doing it and lying about it. when he is not able to lie, ...

Not for revenge but for my own pleasure I'm thinking of cheating, nothing serious just a one night thing. Opinions please!

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

20 November 2012 (F) - My partner and I have been together for 5 years up until recently we were engaged, have 2 children and were trying for a 3rd. During this time he has cheated on me twice that I know of. The first was for the first 12 months we were together...

Why can't I see my husband's computer screen? Why is everything a secret?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

19 November 2012 (F) - My husband and I had to live apart last year after he lost his job. He admits to having girlfriends while he was away. Now he is always reading twitter on his Ipad, and when I asked if could see what he was laughing about, he went ballistic. He ...

What is going on with the married man I'm involved with?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

19 November 2012 (F) - I am involved with a married man who came on strongly via email and text. He has a very stressful time consuming job, but found time to spend with me on the phone, and write long romantic letters. We have seen each other twice. At the beginning, he ...

We've broken up but he has offered to pay for the operation for me to get my virginity back, should I let him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

19 November 2012 (F) - my boyfriend got me loose my virginity, then he promised he would pay the money to get it back. i love him dearly and i'm sure that we are going to get married 4 days before now i read a chat between him and an ex in which he said "my love" and "swe...

How can I carry on knowing he cheated on me for revenge, when nothing ever happened with me and my ex? Should I call it a day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

19 November 2012 (F) - Don't really know where to start with this but ill just give it a shot. Basically I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, he cheated on me at the beginning and I forgive him. The problem is the girl he had his affair with would not let it go an...

Does evidence on his boxers mean he is cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4415 days ago

19 November 2012 (F) - I saw dry sperm stain on my hubby boxer amd he toil me when ever he urinates sperm comes out from his body. Am not happy because he has not make love to me for a long time and I feel he is cheating on me....

I do think he's cheating on me again. Should I believe him and trust him still?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

18 November 2012 (F) - I have no clue what to do. In August my now boyfriend went of to college - the same one that I used to go to. Before he left we were together for 3 months and he said that he loved me and I loved him back. So anyways a week or two after he left...

Should I bring my boyfriend to my house for thanksgiving? He cheated and my family will probably be mean to him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

16 November 2012 (F) - So, it's almost the holidays and my boyfriend is coming to my place for the holidays. But, I'm going to my cousins house for thanksgiving dinner, and he's not doing anything considering his family doesn't really do anything. But, my family knows ...

Cousins love - can it work, even though I'm married?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

15 November 2012 (F) - Basically, I fallen in love with my cousin. He tells me he feels the same and wants to spend the rest of his life with me. We didn't grow up together and I only met him once when I was a teenager - we live in different countries and I am now in m...

Why do involved guys send texts to other girls?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

15 November 2012 (F) - My boyfriend has been sending dirty texts to other girls and he knows that I know. Why do guys send dirty message to other girls if they're in a relationship?...

I know he's a married lying cheating man but how do I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

15 November 2012 (F) - Around a year and a half ago, I met a guy (my co-worker but we work different schedules so we hardly meet at work) and we started dating. We fell in love with each other...this went on for around 4 months and then I found out that he is marri...

I don't know if I can trust him, anymore.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

14 November 2012 (F) - me and my bf have been together for almost 3 years now and he cheated on me right after i found out i was preganat and he new but one night his ex girl friend texted him and he told her to never text or call him and that i was preganat and we were ...

I'm seeing a guy who has a girlfriend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

14 November 2012 (F) - I've been seeing someone for a while now and we both seem to really like each other. The only problem is.. he has a girlfriend. He's never once mentioned breaking up with her, in fact he tells me nothing about her. I don't even know her name. Any ...

Where is this relationship with a married man headed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

14 November 2012 (F) - I am in love with marriedman.I been knowing him for 8years the 1st 3 years and later on I breakit for 4 years and now more than a year I am falling in love allover again.I know it's wrong but I realize he loves me,he always say I trow him outof my...

I don't know if I made the right decision by getting back with my ex boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

14 November 2012 (F) - hey everyone.i just got back with my ex boyfriend.we had broken up for about one year six months.it has been a month since we started dating again.we broken up because he cheated on me and a week after we broke up he started dating another girl.he ...

We had an incredible week long affair and now 3 months later nothing! What happened?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

14 November 2012 (F) - It's the usual affair story....I've been married for 19 years to a good man, hard worker, who would do anything for me. The problem is, he is extremely negative, has no friends, is suicidal at times, is a drinker and his family is rotten. I have ...

I don't know if I want to leave the stability of my marriage for this guy, but I don't trust my husband either!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

13 November 2012 (F) - Here's my story. I am married, have been for almost 2 years. We have a 2 year old together. I found out I was pregnant only month after I met my now husband. While I was 6 months pregnant I found out my husband was cheating. I took him back and he ...

Why is my boyfriend avoiding the subject? Should I confront him about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4219 days ago

13 November 2012 (F) - I posted a while back that my bf had wrongfully accused me of hooking up with an acquaintance of ours before we started dating. He said the guy told him we had sex, so I sent the guy a message saying that I didn't care if he said it or not, that he ...

I left my wife for a woman half my age. Now I hear crap like she will leave me one day, how do I stop it and what do I do if she does leave?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

13 November 2012 (M) - let me start out by saying that i usually dont need advice but im truly upset. i am 49 cheated on my wife with a girl half my age, left my wife for her, got a divorce, got engaged, and now im going to be a father for the first time, to my own child. ...

She's a liar but every time I try to leave she cries and I stay. Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4420 days ago

13 November 2012 (M) - I wanna start by saying that im a 25 year old male from ct. I've been dating this girl for the past year and a half and I knew not to get involved from day one. When I met her she was in a relationship for about a month with a guy almost an hour ...

I had sex with a married man but now he won't speak to me! What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

13 November 2012 (F) - please help i had sex twice with this married man who is driving me crazy,i know what i did was wrong but i couldnt control my self i was so attracted to him but ever since the last time we had sex this was like three weeks ago he hasnt kept intouch ...

My feel my whole family are against me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4421 days ago

13 November 2012 (F) - I am eldest daughter in my family yet my parents treat me like trash. in past i had affair with a guy who i broke up with as he made my life miserable, making me go through worst periods of my life, he cheated me despite the fact that i loved him a ...